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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-11-05 04:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #1402 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1402 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Dirt Poor Robins: Last Days of the Leviathan]


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[Guild Wars]


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[Umineko No Naku Koro Ni]


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[Whites]


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133. http://i56.tinypic.com/2dt3zns.jpg
[linking this image just in case (depiction of dub/non-con)]


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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS BELOW ----- ]









134. [SPOILERS for BtVS]



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135. [SPOILERS for Metalocalypse]



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136. [SPOILERS for D. Gray-man]



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137. [SPOILERS for Dollhouse]



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138. [SPOILERS for Chuck]



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139. [SPOILERS for Nabari no Ou]



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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS BELOW ----- ]









140. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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141. [TRIGGER WARNING for half-dressed real child in the image, pedophilia, and on]
http://i53.tinypic.com/5znuo5.jpg


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142. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape, also blood/violence/implied rape in the image]
http://i55.tinypic.com/se7nlt.png


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143. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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144. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest]



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145. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #200.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - titc + "menstruation" is not a common trigger ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

It's Not Unusual

(Anonymous) 2010-11-06 01:37 pm (UTC)(link)
OP, it sounds like you're struggling with the concept of writing violation-fic itself (and the inherent wrongness of rape) and getting approval for it. Perhaps you feel that sensualizing an act of violence, and getting praise for your fic, is somehow promoting the idea that rape is - in some way - a good thing. And is also taking advantage of your friend's suffering.

But there are two factors in play here that should mitigate your fears. First and foremost - she asked you to write this. She beta'd it, approved it, and encouraged you to post it. This really is one of her ways of working through her trauma.

People who are victimized frequently re-live the experience, playing it out in their heads, trying to figure out what they should have done differently, just trying to make some sort of sense out of it all. Often they find comfort in re-scripting the assault which helps make the victim feel a little more in control of the situation, and therefore a little better at dealing with the aftermath.

tldr: She asked you to do this, and you've made her feel better. That you're worried about taking advantage of her pain simply means that you're a decent human being. All you need to do now is assure her that if she ever start to feel bad about the fic in the future, you'll take it down in a heartbeat.

And from all the other silent victims out there who don't have a friend to confide in -- thank you for being a good human being.