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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-11-14 04:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #1411 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1411 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 10 pages, 240 secrets from Secret Submission Post #202.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] iteari.livejournal.com 2010-11-14 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's not just the implication that the OP thinks poorly and stereotypically this way toward slash fans. I think it's also the fact that the OP is using his/her own poor image issues to bring down other people for their looks, which, you have to admit is not okay.

I mean I feel bad for the OP too but I don't exactly admire the way the OP thinks he/she has to go and do to deal with it in order to feel better.

(Anonymous) 2010-11-14 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, this.

[identity profile] stella-down.livejournal.com 2010-11-14 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not seeing that at all. I'm just seeing an OP who thinks she's ugly and probably uses slash fandom as an escape. maybe that's just me.

[identity profile] iteari.livejournal.com 2010-11-14 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know. Maybe she is, but it seems to me that she was hoping that those fandom friends were unattractive all the same. Either way, I honestly do hope she does find a way to cope better.

[identity profile] stella-down.livejournal.com 2010-11-14 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I worded my comment pretty badly there. looks like I'm talking about myself, lol. I just think this entire thread is disappointing and people's knee-jerk reactions are seriously uncalled for. but apparently I'm in the minority here, so I should probably gtfo this thread.
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[identity profile] mythtaken.livejournal.com 2010-11-14 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
For what it's worth, I agree with you.

(Anonymous) 2010-11-15 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
I also agree with you.

(seriously, FS is the bitchiest "fandom" I've ever met - and I've been in quite a few bitchy ones)

(Anonymous) 2010-11-14 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm in agreement with more or less all your comments in this thread, and I do think it's obvious the secret poster has serious self-esteem issues, and somehow relates her participation is slash fandom to these issues, but I also understand why this is a hot-button topic for many people.

It's infuriating to so often hear how one is into slash because on has ~issues, or how it's because one can't find a partner in RL, or because 'you hate yourself and therefor hate all female characters'. Some of us are just into it because we find it hot, plain and simple -- no huge psychological mystery behind it.
How often are mainstream dudes who're into lesbian porn put under the microscope, and being psychoanalyzed by perfect strangers because of their porn preferences?

I understand why having the worst kind of yaoi/slash fangirl stereotype reinforced by this secret makes some people lash out, even if it's unfair.

[identity profile] stella-down.livejournal.com 2010-11-15 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
nah, seriously, I agree with you. it's a weird and annoying stereotype. I'm like, uh, attractive men are attractive. therefore, two attractive men together is appealing. QED. but I can still see why the OP feels that way. god, I hope she never sees this thread.