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[ SECRET POST #1423 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1423 ⌋

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(gunnerkrigg court)

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[sailormoon german fan films (darkmoon fairytales and last soldier)]

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167. [SPOILERS for Toy Story 3]

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170. [SPOILERS for Smallville]

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171. [SPOILERS for Inception]

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172. [SPOILERS for Misfits]

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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]

173. [TRIGGER WARNING for eating disorders]

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174. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

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175. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest]

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114. http://i55.tinypic.com/atoojt.png

Yeah, you might want to look under dub-con warnings, those are probably more likely to run to your tastes.

This.

That's not rape, that's aggressive sex. Rape isn't a case of "don't want it, wait...Yes I do", rape is "Don't want it, get the fuck off me".

this.

i don't really understand why that's so hard for people to grasp.

I enjoyed this comment very much with the pissed-off Dean icon. It's like he's saying, "I know it dude. I went to hell." Lol.

I know exactly what you mean and have been alternating between trying (and failing miserably) to write it myself and trying to get it written for ages.

ME TOO. I like rape-play-type BDSM mindfuck things, not actual rape.

Mental dominance is waaaay hotter than physical dominance.

this.

I don't think you know what "rape" means, because that's... forceful sex. Dub-con, maybe.

And with that font you're the same person as 108/133 yesterday again, aren't you? (Sorry, but the stroke size on the Ks bothers me.)

OP, I think you're blurring the line between rape and aggressive/hatesex a little too much, here. Rape is about not wanting it, at all, in any way, shape, or form. Even if the victim experiences uncontrollable physical pleasure, mentally and emotionally the victim should not want it and that should all be against the victim's will.

Aggressive/hatesex, meanwhile, is more along the lines of what you described in your secret, I think.

I'm not sure your kink can be considered rapekink.
It's like that Naruto secret where OP said they'd love to have some wrestling-like rough sex with Sasuke and then called it her rape fantasy because obviously anything beyond begging a girl for sex on your knees and then being extremely gentle = rape.

no no, that's still rape. the begging makes it coercion. (I WISH I WAS NOT JOKING THAT SOME PEOPLE THINK THAT)

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(Anonymous) - 2010-11-26 23:54 (UTC) - Expand

Kinda unrelated, but what is everyone's obsession with dub-con, rapekink and/or aggressive sex? I understand not everyone is into the same thing but this dubious area is very prominent in fandom for some reason.

I, personally fine all the above horribly unattractive things to read about.

I think it's about losing control in some way. At least that's what tickles my fenzy there. IRL I'm a pretty reserved person, I take ages to open up to someone, let alone someone touching me and even then I need to feel like I'm in control over what's going on. It's safe, but also... exhausting.

So when I fantasize about brutal sex or, that's forced on me by someone I secretly would totally hit on, if I weren't that control-freak I am, it's all about that letting the control go out of the window. If you're forced to it, or of the other one is physically too strong, so you can not free yourself from his grasp, it's legitimate to not be in control of what's going on. To let yourself go, scream, cry, whatever.

Rapekink on the other side, is (for me) just a nice way to torture my favorite characters (who are usually control-freaks just like I am) in my stories or see them getting tortured. It's about seeing how much it takes to breakes them. Might be the control again. And knowing rape's actually something horrible makes it feel all wrong, which at the same time makes it feel very dirty and dirty... is sexy. Somehow. It's hard to explain.

... Does any of this make any sense to you? Like, can you imagine people liking it a bit better now? I guess everyone has their very own reasons for liking that stuff though, those were just mine (partly at least)

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fisting-pigs.livejournal.com - 2010-11-27 01:14 (UTC) - Expand

+1 to happy sex

(not that I find any of such kinks wrong, I just can't like them myself)

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countess-k.livejournal.com - 2010-11-27 07:50 (UTC) - Expand

I don't think that can really be called rape fic. Not even rape fantasy, where the victim doesn't want it, but enjoys it and there's looove afterward, or whatever.

Dub-con has other connotations to me, too. Like that there are factors that make the consent invalid or unclear.

I don't know. To me, it just sounds like a flavor of angry sex. (Pretty hot angry sex, too.)

"I HAVE A FETISH FOR RAPE STUFF IN FICTION, BUT SINCE EVEN IN FICTIONAL STUFF RAPE IS COMPLETELY NOT OKAY, I ONLY LIKE IT WHEN IT'S NOT ACTUALLY RAPE
SO I'M MUCH MORE SANE AND HEALTHY AND ACCEPTABLE THAN THOSE DISGUSTING PERVERTS WHO LIKE RAPE

JUST THOUGHT I'D LET YOU KNOW THAT I'M BETTER THAN THEM
THAT'S ALL"

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ayeayes.livejournal.com - 2010-11-27 02:08 (UTC) - Expand

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doktordeathray.livejournal.com - 2010-11-27 07:00 (UTC) - Expand

okay how is it rape if the victim could stop it at any time and has no real reason not to. that is... lol you don't have a rape kink dude. dubcon, maybe. mindgames and stuff... and what you're describing does sound pretty hot, it's just... um, not rape. yeah.

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aliceorch.livejournal.com - 2010-11-27 03:05 (UTC) - Expand

Protip: if it's consensual it's not rape.

Try looking for hate sex or aggressive sex...

Dude, no wonder you end up disappointed. That's a lot of specific detail. I think you won't get the exact thing you want unless you commission someone to write it for you just right.

So you like stuff like what happened between Lorena and Bill on True Blood (that scene)? That's more of dubcon, try looking more for that and you'll get a lot more than looking for rape fic.

There's a helluva lot of Tokyo Babylon fanfics if you're into manga. And most of them in some form or another run kind of to your tastes. Otherwise you might want to drop the search term "noncon" and change it to "dubcon"

I am probably too late for you to see this but uh, I wrote a fic exactly like that one time? I say this as someone who knows how annoying it is not to be able to find what you want to read, so. I think it was called Nightmare, it's in my memories, JUST TRYING TO BE HELPFUL MOVING ALONG NOW

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