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That said, sometimes people just need to be told to shut up. But if the two in your secret are seriously out of line when they say it (I don't watch DW, so I can't say), then I'd be surprised if people didn't snap back.
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I think this is the reason a lot of people would be upset. It kinda upsets me too cuz, for all that 10 said he was rude, 11 can be pretty rude too.
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But growing up in my family 'shut up' was closer to polite than rude.
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(Anonymous) 2011-01-02 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2011-01-02 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)I HATE "shut up". And yeah, it also irks me when I hear others saying it. The only time I don't get pissed is if it's a not-serious response to teasing ("Are you wearing your grandmother's sweater again?" "Shut up!").
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(Anonymous) 2011-01-03 02:15 am (UTC)(link)no subject
And I agree about the non-serious teasing. xD
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(Anonymous) 2011-01-03 01:04 am (UTC)(link)It's...that he's very talkative himself, and it seems to me that as he (Eleven specifically, not the previous Doctors, plus Amy) keeps telling people not to speak, it means that what other people have to say doesn't matter...and (which is where I really start overinterpreting) that they don't matter. Which seems to run contrary to all that the Doctor is.
Again: I'm overreacting. But to me, denying someone the right to speak is a pretty terrible thing to do. I know in most cases in DW it's done without thinking, or as a joke, but I think it's happenning very frequently in S5 (not just with the Doctor, but with Amy too -like, twice in the opening to the Christmas special alone, or to her dad at her wedding, or -am I sounding obsessive now?) and it's starting to grate.
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I think he tends to need silence to think because he's just that easily distracted and finds it hard to focus otherwise. Plus I think there's something to the fact that he does tend to ramble himself - if he hasn't told himself to shut up and I've just forgotten, I'm sure he will sooner or later.
Ah well, writers.
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But a lot of people were really mad at the end of S4 when Ten was saying how Wilfred didn't matter and that the Doctor was so much more important. You could say that since the Doctor isn't human, he thinks of things differently than humans do and he has a right to say people who aren't Time Lords and aren't as smart or as powerful as he is don't matter. Which he doesn't because it's not true. The Doctor is special because he doesn't have the flat out elitist nature of the other Time Lords (and that's why Ten's words were so shocking to hear) and the Doctor is always saying how the smallest person is important.
Just because he's an alien doesn't mean he doesn't know what it means to be polite. Ten even acknowledges of rude he's being half the time. If he didn't have a conception of what it meant to be rude, he wouldn't know he was doing it. In fact, he's a lot more human than he first appears, for all the claims about how obtuse and alien he can be.
And he's always telling people to use their brains and think and try to figure things out. So if someone is trying to help, it's pretty un-Doctor-like to tell them to flat out "shut up," even if it's distracting him. Nine was pretty rude and had a tendency to ask for quiet when he was thinking, but even he would say "can I have a bit of hush please?," or something like that.
Tack on the fact that kids watch this show and it never does to show kids that being rude is OK, it's easy to see why it's both annoying and disconcerting to have the Doctor say "shut up" so much.
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I love Eleven dearly, but I hate when he tells people to shut up. Something about it just... irksome. I don't even really know what bothers me about it.
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