[ SECRET POST #1475 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1475 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 14 pages, 349 secrets from Secret Submission Post #211.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

OP: when I said BAD review, I meant BAD review, yeah, trolls, if it's a bad criticism, I can accept that of course

and thanks everyone, I was already feeling worse enough.

This was my first secret, thanks for letting me know to never post secrets again.

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[jlh.livejournal.com]

Okay, you seem really sensitive about people saying shit about you. And if this is how you reacted to that review, I'm not really surprised that all this stuff happened. Also, Fandom Secrets, not the most supportive place! People are going to tell you what they think, and if you're not ready for that you shouldn't post a secret here.

But this whole flouncing thing is really emotionally manipulative. I was more sympathetic toward you until you posted this.

[(Anonymous)]

You're doing it again, you know :( You didn't say what you actually meant and yet now you're trying to emotionally blackmail an entire community because of what a few people said. That's not healthy!

[margerydaw-s2.livejournal.com]

You're not really gaining points with this melodramatic comment. It sounds like you desperately need validation.

[(Anonymous)]

Well, sorry, but your secret just read as if you were deleting everything, that's not positive feedback. I guess, you just chose the wrong words to desribe, what exactly you meant :)
That happens to everyone here once in a while, I guess (at least it also happened to me, too, and I saw a couple other secrets, where it apparently happened, too)

To get flame reviews sucks, but I'd recommend just ignoring them. That's what pisses off the people, who leave them, more than anything else without giving them excuses to harrass you-

same Anon

[(Anonymous)]

EDIT: I assume you're new to communities and stuff like this, that's why I won't give you the same "Baww, grow up or leave the internet" most people here give you.

[(Anonymous)]

Let me give you two words of advice:

Grow.

Up.

[(Anonymous)]

Wow,you really can't take criticism. I hope that in real life you either handle it better or you find a way to get over that.

[(Anonymous)]

re: secret making- it's constructive criticism. In the future, make secrets that make sense. Everybody wins.

[theditz.livejournal.com]

Word of advice 'til next time: Hang around a community like this a while before posting. Just read the atmosphere for a little bit.

Huh? Why is the secret removed? Or is it just me?

[hooves.livejournal.com]

It's not just you-- it's gone.

[theditz.livejournal.com]

Thought so... First time I've seen that happen actually.

[fictionalbf.livejournal.com]

It's not just you.

[(Anonymous)]

OP, this is not the way to handle criticism. This is what people call "flouncing" and "emotional blackmail". I'm willing to give you a bit of leeway seeing as how your writing comes off as someone who's first language is not English. Sometimes things get lost in translation.

Try to read the comments and actually read what people are saying rather than reacting only emotionally. It can be hard, when people are criticizing you, feeling like all people are doing is insulting you, but that's not what's going on.

You say that you can accept bad criticism, yet you came in and deleted your secret and flounced around here. That's not handling bad criticism. You've got some learning and growing to do.

[theditz.livejournal.com]

I like this comment a lot.

[(Anonymous)]

And not a single fuck was given that day

[xerxes92.livejournal.com]

someone's a whiny little cunt.