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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-03-18 04:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #1536 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1536 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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48. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape/non-con and underage]



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52. [TRIGGER WARNING for ED]

[Man vs Food]








Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #219.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ], [ 1 2 - ships it ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2011-03-18 08:44 pm (UTC)(link)
48.
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(Anonymous) 2011-03-18 08:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe you should stop kink-shaming yourself.

[identity profile] val-tyr.livejournal.com 2011-03-18 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh just jerk off already. OH NOES MY PURITY IS SULLIED BY THINGS THAT TURN ME ON.

(Anonymous) 2011-03-18 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Fuck you. I agree OP shuldn't feel like they have to be ashamed of their kinks, but you're being an asshole. Some people take a little while before they can come to accept their kinks. No need to hate on them for it - they're going to get enough of that from assholes trying to shame them for having the kinks at all.

[identity profile] countess-k.livejournal.com 2011-03-18 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Jung's Archetypes - The Shadow (http://changingminds.org/explanations/identity/jung_archetypes.htm#sha)

"The Shadow is a very common archetype that reflects deeper elements of our psyche, where 'latent dispositions' which are common to us all arise. It also reflects something that was once split from us in early management of the objects in our lives.

It is, by its name, dark, shadowy, unknown and potentially troubling. It embodies chaos and wildness of character. The shadow thus tends not to obey rules, and in doing so may discover new lands or plunge things into chaos and battle. It has a sense of the exotic and can be disturbingly fascinating. In myth, it appears as the wild man, spider-people, mysterious fighters and dark enemies.

We may see the shadow in others and, if we dare, know it in ourselves. Mostly, however, we deny it in ourselves and project it onto others. It can also have a life of its own, as the Other. A powerful goal that some undertake is to re-integrate the shadow, the dark side, and the light of the 'real' self. If this can be done effectively, then we can become 'whole' once again, bringing together that which was once split from us.

Our shadow may appear in dreams, hallucinations and musings, often as something or someone who is bad, fearsome or despicable in some way. It may seduce through false friendship or threaten with callous disregard. Encounters with it, as an aspect of the subconscious, may reveal deeper thoughts and fears. It may also take over direct physical action when the person is confused, dazed or drugged."


It's perfectly normal and part of virtually every human being's psyche. It also tends to be stronger and more skewed towards the extreme if the person is on the nicer, gentler side in real life. In other words, you have nothing to feel guilty about. The fact that you are the "nice girl next door," contributes to your 'Shadow' being darker and scarier.

(Anonymous) 2011-03-18 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel you, Anon. The things on the blindfold meme are fucked up. The extreme underage in particular. I started reading a few just to see what they were all about, and some of them were so well written...and my reactions just creeped me out.





[identity profile] sxiz.livejournal.com 2011-03-18 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
people can't help what turns them on. don't beat yourself up about it.

(Anonymous) 2011-03-18 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Calm down. Just because it turns you on in fiction doesn't mean you think it's okay in the real world.

Your kinks are okay and you don't need to hate yourself for them. ♥

(Anonymous) 2011-03-18 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Been there done that.
From a nice straight-A, and goody two shoes only daughter... is hard realizing all that stuffs that gets you hot... even more if is seen "wrong".

Even more if friends and family have openly bashed all that stuff.

But believe, what happens between your little fandom kinky time and you... can stay in secret. If you want it that way.

[identity profile] geekbynight.livejournal.com 2011-03-18 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
What your body happens to be sexually aroused by is not your fault. I know with certain kinks it is hard not to feel like you should, but don't shame yourself for it.

(Anonymous) 2011-03-19 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
Errr.... See Secret #6?

Let me tell you something about myself. I am a female in my early twenties who really gets off on M/M forced bondage and underage rape. Judging from the number of people who write this particular kink in my fandom, I am not the only one who gets off on it.

Does this mean we're all donating money to NAMBLA in exchange for pictures of real boys being abused? Obviously it doesn't. Does that mean we don't have fulfilling emotional and sexual relationships with our partners? Obviously it doesn't.

Fantasy is not the same as reality. And fantasy is awesome. This is why we feel empowered when we watch Hollywood superheroes murdering each other instead of ashamed and guilty. And, trust me, fandom kinkmemes have a far smaller potential to hurt real people than Hollywood blockbusters.

[identity profile] 0o0f.livejournal.com 2011-03-19 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
At times I wish I could be into more sweet and romantic stuff too, but... I'm not sure you can control something like that, and I'm not hurting anyone, so I try not to beat myself up about it. And I don't think you should feel bad either.

[identity profile] oflittlebrain.livejournal.com 2011-03-19 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
omg it's not that srs calm down D:

(Anonymous) 2011-03-19 08:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel where you're coming from, OP. I get really turned on by some pretty unpleasent stuff, especially when it's written well. I'm OK with that part of myself, they're valid kinks, fantasy doesn't mean I condone it, etc.

But the part that scares me is when the *only* things that turn me on are violent or filled with emotional pain. Sometimes I try to go for a month - during Lent, say - where I don't read or jerk off to rape fantasies or stories where a character has no power/equality. It's really really hard to come up with satisfying fluff, that also gets me off.