[ SECRET POST #1544 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1544 ⌋

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Comments

[glansbilde.livejournal.com]

Would you have become agnostic if you lived some place where your faith was never questioned? Would you have second-guessed the dogma of your elders if you'd never heard anything but praise for it your whole life?

Yes. I did not become agnostic because of atheists. I became agnostic because of the physical and emotional abuse I suffered for being an effeminate gay man in a Muslim family. That's the reason. In fact, the more people critised me and yelled shit on the streets and what not, the more defensive over Islam I got. The more people sterotyped me and made me uncomfortable and ashamed over my culture and religion the more I believed that Islam was right. I don't think being cruel and stereotyping(YOU ALL HATE GAYS etc) is helpful at all if your goal is to turn people away from religion. That's my opinion on this, basically.

[(Anonymous)]

My goal isn't to turn people away from religion. I know people for whom religion is a source of great comfort, as well as a motivation to get out and actually do good things for others, and do so without feeling the need to criticize beliefs which they do not share.

If I have a goal, I suppose it's to encourage people to think about what they believe. Discomfort has a certain utility in that process. My original comment was aimed at the OP, of course, whom I thought was being a bit whiny over encountering different views. (Reminded me of my nieces and nephews when they were adolescents, actually, and needed a few new ideas to challenge their assumptions.)

What you experienced goes far beyond being uncomfortable, however, especially since you were getting abuse (particularly physical abuse) from both sides. I hope that your life is better now.

[(Anonymous)]

particularly physical abuse

Excuse me?

I might be reading something that's not there, but are you implying that physical abuse is somehow worse than any other sort of abuse?

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not the anon who said this, but it kind of is. It's worse to be physically assaulted on the street than having someone call you something racist for example(verbal abuse). And physical abuse ALWAYS contains emotional abuse as well. So basically:

Physical abuse = emotional + physical damage.
Emptional abuse = emotional damage.

I think it's fair to say that being frequently physically attacked on the street is worse than frequent name calling.

[(Anonymous)]

Well, then, we'll have to agree to disagree on that. :(

[(Anonymous)]

You have obviously never been tortured before. Which is a good thing, really, I hope you never do.

[glansbilde.livejournal.com]

Well, I can agree that it works for OP, especially since they're Christian in what is more likely a Christian country if you think about it like that. I read it as people being mean and cruel: not just critising religon. OP said that there was a lot of "hate" and "intolerence" which made it seem like people were being crueler than just having discussions about problematic issues.

I don't know. The physical abuse was from my father(who is a Muslim) though. Which is why I started being unable to believe in this religion that supposedly said I deserved to get the crap beaten out of me for being femme. Other people, atheists and Chirstians, weren't violent towards me. Just cruel. "We don't wan't you fucking muslims here, go back to your country!" is a popular one. Which I can definitely see as being "uncomfortable". It's not abuse it's someone making me uncomfortable about my religion. If they pointed out that Islam is a sexist religion I wouldn't be uncomfortable. That's only how I feel about it. I think your definition of uncomfortable may be a bit different from mine.