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fandomsecrets2011-03-30 03:44 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2011-03-30 03:44 pm
[ SECRET POST #1548 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1548 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 095 secrets from Secret Submission Post #221.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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Warning: Triggering, graphic talk of rape part 3/3
(Anonymous) 2011-03-30 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)At the end of the summer, when Kevin heard me talking to a girl who worked in catering about what had happened, he came over and told me that I should know he really cares because in 4 years his daughter will be 14, and he is a feminist, that I should admit that he did everything he could to help me, and that if I am still feeling bad about it I should go see a psychiatrist when I get home.
If I were to truly explain to you how that made me feel, you would be left bleeding heavily in a bath of salt. That pain is something MY father has felt, my mother has felt when she still wakes me up from my nightmares weekly. It is a burden that will never ever be lifted from my beloved boyfriend, and my best friends in my band who have born the fallout.
I blame Kevin Lyman because unlike the person who drugged and raped me, he knows the difference between right and wrong, And unlike that person, Kevin was in a position of power. I definantly blame the rapist for his crime, but more than him I blame Kevin and Volcom and Epitaph, and everyone else who put money, and business over human decency. I blame everyone in a position of power who looked the other way and let the criminal get away with it.
Kevin Lyman claiming his concern for me on the life of his daughter has burned me since the words came out of his mouth. And if anyone asks me why I waged war on the entire United States of America over this issue, I will tell you right now. It is for her. Because her father was too weak.
Re: Warning: Triggering, graphic talk of rape part 3/3
(Anonymous) 2011-03-30 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Warning: Triggering, graphic talk of rape part 3/3
(Anonymous) 2011-03-30 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Warning: Triggering, graphic talk of rape part 3/3
Also she sounds like a really impressive person. I hope she's recovering okay.
Re: Warning: Triggering, graphic talk of rape part 3/3
Re: Warning: Triggering, graphic talk of rape part 3/3
(Anonymous) 2011-03-31 08:02 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Warning: Triggering, graphic talk of rape part 3/3
(Anonymous) 2011-04-02 12:02 am (UTC)(link)Yup
never buying shit from them again.
Man this whole article is so heartbreaking and enraging. I cannot believe the magnitude of Bullshit people will do and say to cover their asses and looks the other way when something like this happens.
Re: Warning: Triggering, graphic talk of rape part 3/3
Don't get me wrong: this reads as very authentic to me. I believe it. I just would like something I can point to when skeptical folks want more evidence than "this sounds depressingly realistic to me."