[ SECRET POST #1551 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1551 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Fewer secrets this week, probably because of the DDoS attack on LJ before.

Secrets Left to Post: 11 pages, 251 secrets from Secret Submission Post #222.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 (TRON SECRET MAKER LOOK HERE, THIS IS THE 4TH OR 5TH TIME)- repeat ], [ 1 2 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom.livejournal.com]

11. http://i52.tinypic.com/1pcrpz.jpg

[kanjo-girl.livejournal.com]

Cute~ But I'm sure they won't mind if you friend them or something.

[allstarzs.livejournal.com]

Beautiful secret is beautiful. And befriend them anon, I'm sure they'd be happy to make a new friend.

[maskitheclown.livejournal.com]

I thought that was normal?

[(Anonymous)]

These secrets drive me crazy!
Nosy anon wants to know all the gossipy details. D:

[theditz.livejournal.com]

Friend them! I'm sure they wouldn't mind.

[(Anonymous)]

What's the etiquette for friending someone? Do you friend first, ask questions later, or just friend anyone you want?

[baaing-tree.livejournal.com]

Generally, if I get friended by someone I haven't seen before, I won't talk to them. (Hello, Russian spambots!) So if I don't recognize them, it's good to have an introduction. (Just a simple, "Hi! I saw you on N_____ and found your opinions on X interesting!" is fine.)

I've been asked to be friended first, or friended and then spoken to later. Both are fine, for me at least.

[innatizzy.livejournal.com]

A lot of people will have a post in their journal or on their profile on their personal friending policy. Some prefer that you drop a comment, others don't mind either way. I'd just check out the journal and see.

I usually just friend people, then the next post that I have something to comment on I'll drop in a "btw found you through X" and say that I added them.

[citrinesunset.livejournal.com]

I usually look at a person's profile and journal to see if they have a "friending policy." I find a lot of people have a brief statement like, "Go ahead and friend me if you want!" or "I only friend people back whom I know IRL" or something like that.

Usually I friend people after talking to them, though. So if I've been interacting with them in their journal, I'll comment asking if it's all right if I friend them.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm the same. There's someone I often have good conversations with and really would like to talk to outside F!S, but I'm too socially awkward to friend them out of the blue. So, uh, OP, you're definitely not alone with this.

[(Anonymous)]

oh, whew, i wasn't making secrets in my sleep again. OR WAS I.

[(Anonymous)]

I've lost track of how many times I've felt that way about people in fandom.

[hikari87.livejournal.com]

Eh, just talk to them. Random people have talked to me on here and it didn't bother me, so just try it and see if they respond.

[aethre.livejournal.com]

Y'know, I've never figured out the whole LJ friending thing, probably because it has the word 'friend' in it. If it was just following, I'd get it, but... it says friend! Friend!!

I do, however, have no problems with talking to random people on public places like f!s.

[no-one-specific.livejournal.com]

We should have a friending meme to make it easier. Like, where we put the basic stuff like our name, fandoms of choice, age, location, views on all those topics that cause wank (jk, jk), that sort of thing.

[zyxwvutsrq321.livejournal.com]

Seconding everyone saying to just talk to them. (: Even if it doesn't end up romantic-- which you said you weren't really interested in, anyway-- there's great potential for a friendship here!

[cloud-riven.livejournal.com]

Do they have a friending policy/post thing? Maybe you could send them a message going all, "Hey cool LJ-er B) I saw you on the fandom secrets and I think you are so cool. We have some common interests/fandoms. Did you catch the last episode/issue of series/movie/thing X? [segue into your thoughts about X] Let's talks some more! *friends*"

You will be the suavest.

Also, this secret is the cutest.

[gabzillaz.livejournal.com]

Friend them then :)

[kelly-h80.livejournal.com]

My first thought when I read this was the anon who always asked/talks about Detholl.

[that-evening.livejournal.com]

Friend them!