See, I have no issue with her identifying as a lesbian. I really don't! I'll call her gay all day long. This doesn't upset me.
What upsets me is when she catches any hint or implication or suggestion that she may be at all straight (even just a little bi), that she may have ANY feelings for ANY male character again, if ever any male character flirts even a little, it's "HEY BACK OFF I'M GAY NOW GAWD GUYS." Because while she may have found a better path, while she may be happier with women now that she's discovered this possibility, WHATEVER THE CASE MAY BE, what she had with Oz was real. Xander can be written off as a childhood crush and puppy love, platonic feelings confused for love, whatever. But Oz was not. So if she denies even the slightest remaining hint of heterosexual inclinations she has, then I get mad at HER.
Yeah, okay. TL;DR: Willow, you don't HATE cock, you just don't PREFER it. Get over yourself.
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What upsets me is when she catches any hint or implication or suggestion that she may be at all straight (even just a little bi), that she may have ANY feelings for ANY male character again, if ever any male character flirts even a little, it's "HEY BACK OFF I'M GAY NOW GAWD GUYS." Because while she may have found a better path, while she may be happier with women now that she's discovered this possibility, WHATEVER THE CASE MAY BE, what she had with Oz was real. Xander can be written off as a childhood crush and puppy love, platonic feelings confused for love, whatever. But Oz was not. So if she denies even the slightest remaining hint of heterosexual inclinations she has, then I get mad at HER.
Yeah, okay. TL;DR: Willow, you don't HATE cock, you just don't PREFER it. Get over yourself.