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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-06 03:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #1555 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1555 ⌋

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[identity profile] a-phoenixdragon.livejournal.com 2011-04-07 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
I love John and I ADORE J/D - but I don't see this as a healthier realtionship for the sheer fact that there could never be equal footing. Dean will do ANYTHING John says - he's too afraid to speak up for his own needs, so I can't see this as healthier than D/S. There's still the equal footing issue, but it is not between a soldier and his commander - or an overbearing man and his eager to please son.

John is a loving and fierce father - and a good man. But he is NOT a good father. This was established by canon. And yes, he is abusive. Neglect is still abuse - and he expected more from his eldest than he was willing or able to give himself. I love John, but he still pisses me off now and again. No, he wasn't physically abusive - but he was abusive (even without realising it) in an emotional, verbal and psychological way. Look at how Dean behaves and look at how Sam reacts to said behavior. Even the way they were raised by one man was vastly different, with the burden being on Dean. This is, unfortunately, canon. So while I love John/Dean fics (with a passion) I can't see them being in a mutually consensual relationship. The odds are stacked against it, character-wise.

*hugs*
Edited 2011-04-07 01:38 (UTC)