[ SECRET POST #1558 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1558 ⌋

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Comments

[hikari87.livejournal.com]

"But I feel like a lot of people don't give young people and couples the credit they deserve when it comes to relationships. There's just this "young=irresponsible/clueless/flighty" mentality and that's just not fair."

This. One of my best friends got married when she and her husband were both 18. They're 25 now, have 3 kids and are very stable, happy and in love. From my own experience and things I've seen, I'd say that it's more a matter of maturity than chronological age. Granted there is such a thing as simply being too young, I would personally draw the line at marriage or engagement before you're of legal age, because until you hit legal age, you haven't got as many responsibilities and therefore haven't got as much experience to know how to handle difficult things that come along. But you have a good point with saying that older people tend more to be jaded and go into a relationship assuming it will eventually crumble. That's not the mindset that leads to permanence; it's a self-fulfilling prophecy, since if you assume you're doomed from the start, you won't work as hard to make things work because you don't believe they will.