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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-09 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #1558 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1558 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2011-04-10 07:28 am (UTC)(link)
That's fine, as long as you recognize that not everyone can have a "neutral/happy conversation" simply because you need it, no matter how big your problems are. Not only does that require a certain degree of emotional control and attentiveness to your problems, it's also self-sacrificing, rejecting their problems to be better supportive of you. Some really really great people will be willing to do that for you, to be that shoulder to cry on. But that's not their JOB as friends, and it may cost you some friendships. And it really doesn't make the people who aren't able to deal with someone who needs that constant support bad people. Just like you're not a bad person for not being able to help them. <3