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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-04-13 04:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #1562 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1562 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2011-04-14 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
I'm much the same way, but with a much happier ending (so far). After a decade of marriage with a crappy sex life full of resentment and feeling like I was a total failure, I finally figured out that I was asexual. Realizing that freed me from a lot of my issues and I decided that my husband deserved a good sex life either from me or from someone else. I just couldn't accept him sleeping with someone else no matter how much I rationalized it so it had to be me. Letting go of the "oh my god why am I not getting off on this??" angst helped me a lot, and now I enjoy the intimacy and knowing I'm giving him pleasure. I was totally open with him about being asexual and he just shrugged it off, especially since it's so much better all around there's not much to complain about :)