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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-04 07:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #1583 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1583 ⌋


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 83 secrets from Secret Submission Post #226.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 3 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 - too big ], [ 0 - hit/ship/spiration ], [ 0 - omgiknowthem ], [ 0 - take it to comments ], [ 0 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
And also with you publicly praising the person that did it, like breaking someone's trust is something to be encouraged.

Maybe it's "just fandom" now, but your entire journal is f-locked, and you freely admit to bitching about people there. Not to mention personal stuff you post. How would you like that, any of it, revealed to someone who wasn't on your friends list? You don't know the consequences that might someday have if you continue to cultivate and praise such behavior.

Have a shred of decency and empathy. It's about trust. If you can't trust someone over something as inconsequential as fandom, how can you ever trust them with anything important?

[identity profile] tanz-fanatika.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 06:08 am (UTC)(link)
Do I? I actually can't remember the last time I bitched about someone in my personal journal. Hmm.

If you're going to complain about people online, there's a pretty good chance that person's going to find out. Friends thought it was important that I know I was being talked about. I see that as being a friend. If I saw someone bitching about my friends, I'd sure want them to know. Loyalty to one person sometimes overrules loyalty to another. The two people made the mistake of bitching in front of people who happened to be more loyal to me.

If you're gonna say stuff online, be prepared for consequences.

You keep trying to make this situation bigger than it is. It's not like someone put down a boss on LJ and someone else showed that post to the boss and got the OP fired. Yes, there are lots of ways this situation could be major, but these two incidents are not. They're minor. Just because there are bad things that could happen in similar situations does not mean ALL "I told your secrets!" incidents are horrible travesties against humanity.

I also think that you should be able to trust people to be honest with you and bring problems to you. Unfortunately, that happens just about as often as people not telling on you when you've been bitchy.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 06:19 am (UTC)(link)
[comment left blank so you can have the last word because lord knows if you don't get it you'll just keep wanking until you do]