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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-04 07:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #1583 ]

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[identity profile] tanz-fanatika.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 07:59 am (UTC)(link)
I honestly wouldn't have banned you if you hadn't opened your mouth here. There are plenty of people I've worked out issues with in all my comms that are still members.

As for tightening my grip, honey, I've run comms for 7 years now. Nothing's slipped. I'm not your brand of mod. Cool. Go be with your own kind.

[identity profile] allicapri.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 08:07 am (UTC)(link)
Lady, that's the crux of my issue. What I say here should have absolutely no bearing on my membership in your community, where I put not one toe out of line. You're not getting that that's a shitty way to run a community.

And there have been enough comments tonight about the Disney Fairies community becoming a wasteland because of you that I question the efficacy your tactics. When you run this one into the ground as well I'll be over here, laughing my ass off.

[identity profile] tanz-fanatika.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 08:13 am (UTC)(link)
What you're not getting is that I don't care. Why should I suffer assholes if I don't have to? There's no award for Miss LJ Etiquette 2011 and even if there was, who'd want to win it? I want to enjoy my fandoms with as little fuckwittery as possible. If that means getting rid of people and being perceived as a bitch, then so be it. I don't mind. Not one little bit.

And in time, we'll see who's laughing. Communities that spawn from mine tend to fail. ;)

[identity profile] allicapri.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
And when you've driven everybody away you can play in your own sad little corner of the sandbox, alone, with everything set just the way you want it.

It is perhaps deliciously ironic that you referred to [livejournal.com profile] go_monsterhigh as MH>18, because the original >18 was similarly born as a reaction to rampant bullshit, hypocrisy, and injustice and has flourished considerably, while the community from which it sprang has shriveled into a dried husk of its former self.

[identity profile] tanz-fanatika.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 08:37 am (UTC)(link)
If I haven't driven everyone off yet, why would you think that would ever happen? It's been years! As I've said repeatedly: some love me, some hate me. But just because you and your little clique hate me, doesn't mean everyone does.

As for the comms, we shall see, my dear. We shall see. Check back with me in a couple years. We'll compare notes.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-05 04:43 pm (UTC)(link)
[comment left blank so you can have the last word because lord knows if you don't get it you'll just keep wanking until you do]

[identity profile] allicapri.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 06:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't hate you. That would take a lot of valuable energy that you just aren't worth. I'm pretty much indifferent to you.

I do kind of feel sorry for you, though. In reading the rest of the thread it's apparent that you have no ability to play well with others or the real world, so instead of putting on your big girl panties and dealing with it, you tighten and tighten your control on the little tracts of the virtual world you can claim as your own, all the while putting up some front of "nope, not caring!" when you get called out on your actions.

You doth protest too much, and your facade is all too transparent.

[identity profile] tanz-fanatika.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 07:01 pm (UTC)(link)
*grin* So you think. Others think differently. Sorry, but there's more than one way to see me. All of this analyzing people do is amusing, but really for naught.

As for getting called out on one's actions, well, if your camp could handle that, we wouldn't be having this conversation.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-06 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
Well, except that it seems that Allicapir could handle that. Allicapir did exactly what you said you'd wanted whoever the original person was to do. And then you banned her too, for what looked like largely a "by association" sort of bullshit excuse.

Your behavior here, the whole fake familiarity thing (hon, dear, etc) have really said a lot about you that isn't just a case of people "analyzing" you. It's by your own behavior that the merit of your character is determined, and you come up seriously lacking.

Also, you may want to check your own friendslist, and see who on there is letting shit slip ;) Sometimes the people who come off in public as the most buddy buddy do so because they've the most to hide.

[identity profile] rhapsodyinpink.livejournal.com 2011-05-06 03:34 am (UTC)(link)
Just saying, Lori doesn't post any shit that has a possibility of being slipped. Unless you're interested in reading about her answers to memes and random thoughts about her job.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-06 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
^ They are either soulmates, or socks.

[identity profile] rhapsodyinpink.livejournal.com 2011-05-06 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
Ha. Lori lives in New York and is in her 30s, and works fulltime. I'm a college junior living in Chicago and I don't turn 21 for another two weeks. And that's just the basics. Trust me, there is ample proof that she and I are not the same person.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-06 06:03 am (UTC)(link)
Given that, it's kind of sad (for her) that between the two of you, you're the one handling yourself more maturely.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-06 06:09 am (UTC)(link)
She is in her thirties... holy crap.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-06 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
I honestly wouldn't have banned you if you hadn't opened your mouth here.
Why did you just make up that stipulation? If that was an issue, why didn't you mention that initially.

How about you not only tell us who all these "plenty of people" are, but send them over here and have them tell us themselves the problems that they had with you, and what you did to "work it out", and how they're pleased with the outcome?

[identity profile] dreaming-faerie.livejournal.com 2011-05-06 05:36 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe those people have lives and jobs that are a lot more important than bowing down to anon's whims.

Idk, just a thought.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-06 05:42 am (UTC)(link)
Alternatively, they just don't fucking exist, and this is YET ANOTHER FUCKING COP OUT

[identity profile] dreaming-faerie.livejournal.com 2011-05-06 05:44 am (UTC)(link)
I don't exist? I'm a cop out? Lol ok.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-06 06:02 am (UTC)(link)
oooh, you're claiming that you're one of the people she worked out things with, and you've just not responded because you've a life and all?

but then you responded?

except not in a "see, no really Lori is like that! I had this problem, took it to her this way, and she totally did this! It was awesome, and it proves that it can be done, and if you can't do it, it's probably because you're immature bitches that can't handle shit openly and honestly!" sort of helpful way. Because honestly? I'd have been down with that. I can see how the people up in here bitching about all this ARE also the sort of immature bitches that can't handle shit openly and honestly, and instead breed drama with back-biting as has been stated.

But nope. You responded, but in a completely bitched up immature way yourself.

So what we clearly have here is one pot, and one fucking kettle, both screaming over which one is blacker.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-06 06:14 am (UTC)(link)
This person is in pro Ana comms. They are not objective.

[identity profile] lesbido.livejournal.com 2011-05-06 12:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Of course not. Then you couldn't cover it up as easily. Because they posted it here, the banning is all out in the open.