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fandomsecrets2011-05-06 08:08 pm
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[ SECRET POST #1585 ]
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Shoujo Kakumei Utena]
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03.
[Pirates of the Caribbean]
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[Zak McKracken and the Alien Mindbenders, Loom]
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[Westminster Bagcarrier]
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07. [repeat]
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08.
[Eek! The Cat, Garfield]
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09.
[Gintama]
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10.
[Sassy Gay Friend]
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11.
[Doctor Who]
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[florence and the machine]
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[Inception]
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15.
[fakenews_fanfic]
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[Ace Attorney]
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[alex o'loughlin/the invisible]
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18.
[G.A.B.E.]
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20.
[The Black Cauldron]
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[Pokemon]
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22.
[Girls Next Door by Pika-la-Cynique]
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23.
[Cuanta Vida]
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24.
[John Lennon]
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[Tangled/The Enchanted Forest Chronicles]
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[Inception]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
28. [SPOILERS for Puella Magi Madoka Magica]
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29. [SPOILERS for Homestuck]
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30. [SPOILERS for Super]
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31. [repeat]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
32. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]
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33. [TRIGGER WARNING for suicide]
[Doctor Who]
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34. [TRIGGER WARNING for self-harm]
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35. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape, abuse]
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #226.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 3 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 0 - hit/ship/spiration ], [ 0 - repeats ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.
Re: From Episode 38
(Anonymous) 2011-05-08 07:47 pm (UTC)(link)Utena: No.
Utena: Your pain wasn't recognized.
Utena: Your suffering wasn't realized.
Utena: Instead, you had someone pretending to be a Prince who could save you.
Utena: It was just a conceited way of protecting you.
Utena: And when you were seen with Akio-san...it seemed like a betrayal.
Utena: When you were suffering so much...when you had been told we should save each other...
Utena: You are not the one being unfair. You are not the one who is dirty. (Note: she can't say that she was the one being unfair or dirty, because that would require the use of "I")
Utena: You were the one who was betrayed.
Anthy: It's okay now, so please...leave this school.
Anthy: Please forget about all of this.
Utena: How...the hell could that be?
See what happens? If you don't use direct "I" statements when apologizing to someone, then you never truly take responsibility for what you've done. You list all the wrongs that have been committed without ever acknowledging that you're the one who committed them. In other words, if you don't use "I," you detach yourself from the situation and shift the burden of blame off your shoulders.