The reason I can't ship them is not because of "sexual assault" (holy crap people, he's just a frustrated and confused character who impulsively acted out his feelings) but because of how badly he bullied Kurt. I'm all for friend or mentor!Kurt, but I frankly don't see a romantic relationship becoming canon.

I do agree that people should get off the backs of Kurtofsky shippers; they're nowhere near as bad as some other ships out there. If kink-shaming is not okay (please don't start a debate about this), why should ship-shaming be?