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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-13 08:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #1592 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1592 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[BSG]


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[Yu-Gi-Oh 5Ds]


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[Supernatural]


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[Glee]


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09. [repeat]


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[Once Upon A Time In Mexico]


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[Breakout Kings]


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[Supernatural]


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[Ano Hi Mita Hana no Namae o Bokutachi wa Mada Shiranai]


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[Invasion America]


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[Zork Nemesis]


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[Waiting for Godot and Good Omens]


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[Withnail & I]


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[Gorillaz]


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[The Young Riders]


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[Pride & Prejudice]


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[Shantae: Risky's Revenge]


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[bbc sherlock (lestrade)]








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24. [SPOILERS for Supernatural]



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25. [SPOILERS for Ghost Trick]



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26. [SPOILERS for Harry Potter and the Forbidden Journey]



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27. [SPOILERS for Death Note]



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28. [SPOILERS for the Tudors]



29. [SPOILERS for Transformers: Dark of the Moon]



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30. [SPOILERS for Portal 2]



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31. [SPOILERS for Portal 2]










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32. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape, abuse]



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33. [TRIGGER WARNING for abuse/sexual assault]

[Glee]


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34. [SPOILERS for Doctor Who]
[TRIGGER WARNING for parent death?]



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35. [TRIGGER WARNING for ]



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36. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape, racism, abuse, and pedophilia]



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37. [TRIGGER WARNING for self-harm]



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38. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual abuse]

[Kuroshitsuji II]




Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #227.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] hikari87.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
Incidentally, the point of the secret, which you appear to have missed, is not that no one should have kinks, or share them with others of a like mind, but that people who have issues with said kinks should not be censored or told to stfu any more than the people with the kinks, since their views, feelings and opinions are equally valid with the others who like the kinks.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-14 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
Of course the people who have issues should not be censored. But the point is that whatever issues they may have are fairly irrelevant because no one is forcing them to deal with other people's kinks. If you have issues with rape fic, don't read rape fic. Just ignore it when it pops up on comms. Don't go around telling people that you have issues with it. People are told to STFU about their issues because they have no reason to mention their issues in the first place. Somebody writes rape fic. You don't like rape fic. The smart thing is to go and ignore the rape fic, instead of starting to tell people why you have a problem with rape fic and then be outraged that people are annoyed by your whining.
(This is a very general, hypothetical 'you', I don't mean you personally, I have no idea what you have or do not have issues with. :))

[identity profile] hikari87.livejournal.com 2011-05-14 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
I just ignore what I have issues with. Most of my issues have nothing to do with sex, so it's easier to avoid them lol. But my point here is that if something is on a public forum, being discussed, like happens on this comm sometimes, the people who don't like whatever kink is being talked about should be allowed to talk about what they don't like and why, just as much as the people who do like the kink are allowed to talk about why they like it. Neither side should be allowed to shut the other up, nor should either side be allowed to be rude about it, because both sides have an equal right to their opinion and to express it.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-14 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
MTE
Also, I would think that people who get triggered by certain kinks, would want to stay far away from discussions about these things. When something makes me uncomfortable I don't feel the need to talk about again and again and again...
Especially since it's really not very likely that you're going to change someone's mind about their kinks. So I don't see the point in someone telling someone else that their kink is disgusting. This is not news. There are always going to be people who are repulsed by some kinks and there are going to be those who are turned on by them. That's life.
That doesn't mean you can't complain when someone is being an ass or isn't using warnings for their fics. You can't warn for everything but certain things like rape or pedophilia should have a warning. Unless, of course, you want people to think you're an asshole and complain to you. (I wouldn't be surprised.)
On the other hand people who whine about having triggers that absolutely no one could expect and therefore warn for are fucking ridiculous.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-14 06:08 am (UTC)(link)
Even if there's a warning, that doesn't stop people from being made aware that someone is getting off on the kind of trauma they've gone through and that someone thinks making their favorite characters suffer that way is sexy and interesting. It's a pretty horrifying realization.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-14 10:02 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, I get that. But the fact remains that the chance that you're going to change someone's mind is pretty damn slim. So why bother trying instead of doing your best to stay as far away from these things as you possibly can.