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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-16 07:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #1595 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1595 ⌋


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[identity profile] joshua-glass.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe it's just me... but even though I have made some of my best friends through fandom, who I (or they) are banging (or in our cases not banging) never became a big conversation topic. Now maybe that's just us, but real things, real problems, work, and yes fandom, dominate our conversations.

I'm sure it's probably weird to you (and by this I mean from your perspective) that you have nothing to contribute to the conversation when it bends that way, but I doubt your friends are sitting there thinking, "Hmm, I wonder why so-and-so isn't spilling all about who they're seeing/sleeping with?"

Friends, fandom or not, shouldn't be solely focused on the relationships in your life. To me, that doesn't seem like a very deep friendship. And as a few people have mentioned, there are probably more asexuals in fandom than you would think.

OP

(Anonymous) 2011-05-17 08:30 am (UTC)(link)
thank you! you are probably right.