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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-16 07:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #1595 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1595 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2011-05-17 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
I have the same problem; the more I move towards transitioning, the more I feel like I'm infringing on spaces that were never meant for me, but in a lot of cases those spaces are all I have. I can give them up, and lose the few spaces where I feel both safe and comfortable or I can keep them, and feel guilty about intruding where I'm not wanted. And whatever I do, I can beat myself up for repressing this for so long I ever felt comfortable in spaces not meant for me. I wish I knew the solution.
karel: (fayedora; I'munna hug youuuu)

[personal profile] karel 2011-05-17 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
man, no, please don't think like this. the anons (who will probs troll your comment) may have a problem with you, but their voices are the loudest. the majority of fandom really doesn't care, so long as you're a constructive, friendly member.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-17 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
very few spaces are spaces exclusively for women. if the spaces you're talking about have in fact been designated as safe spaces for women only, yes, you need to leave. otherwise you're fine.

[identity profile] liyosa.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
Other than the loo and the harem, I really can't think of anything. :/

(Anonymous) 2011-05-17 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
Oh yeah, I'm not talking about safe spaces, more the kind of places that exist in an ambiguous place where men aren't explicitly unwelcome but not necessarily explicitly welcomed, either.