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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-16 07:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #1595 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1595 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2011-05-17 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
So sleep around is okay and normal. Good to know.
You should never feel ashamed for having sex with a person that you don't know. Good to know.
Sex with anyone at anytime is okay. Good to know.

[identity profile] wldcatsprstr-14.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
You should never feel ashamed for having sex with a person that you don't know.

Unless you were dumbass and got an STI from not using protection, then no.

Sex with anyone at anytime is okay.

There's a time and a place for everything. And definitely some people you should never sleep with.

I'm honestly not sure how you got all that from this secret...

(Anonymous) 2011-05-17 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
Um... if your partner does not know or does not disclose his/her disease status and you get an STI, your actions were not "shameful."

Sexually assaulting someone is shameful. Making a decision that winds up not being the best one? Not shameful.

[identity profile] wldcatsprstr-14.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
Keeping yourself safe when you choose to engage in sexual activity is no one's business but your own. Whether that's using protection or making sure your partner gets tested before you do anything, it's your responsibility. Because it's your sexual health, not someone else's.

If I knew better than to do something, did it anyway, and ended up with an STI for my troubles, I'd say I'd feel ashamed of myself. Because I knew better.

[identity profile] cloud-riven.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
Sex with anyone at anytime is okay. Good to know.

If everyone's consenting on all sides, and we all agree that the time's alright hell yes get under my bed sheets.

[identity profile] oflittlebrain.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
i mean as long as you're playing it safe, what exactly is the big deal here?

(Anonymous) 2011-05-17 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
For some cultures, all of the above are true.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-17 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
lol, yes, sleeping one time with someone you've just met totally equals sleeping around/sex with anyone at anytime. Nice connection, there.

And all sarcasm aside, yes, all of things are perfectly normal and perfectly fine.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-17 03:06 am (UTC)(link)
NA

If sleeping with a dude a decade older that you just met isn't sleeping around, I don't know what is. You have to have like zero standards and self-respect to do that shit.
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[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
I sleep with a dude a decade older than me every night

What is the big deal, as long as you're a legal adult, who cares

(Anonymous) 2011-05-17 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Again, I say lol. Yes, everyone MUST always have sex with only those within an age range to be specified by anons online! Sleeping with someone outside of that age range = no standards!

Urban Dictionary: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=sleeping%20around - Sleeping Around: When someone has been having sex with several different people. Nothing in there about sleeping with one person, even one person that you've just met, and, shockingly, nothing about a ten year age difference.

[identity profile] ssddgr.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 08:37 am (UTC)(link)
I read "anons online" as "onions online" o_0

Other than that, I agree with you; OP having an one-night stand does not equal sleeping around. And even if someone is sleeping around, nobody has the right to judge, IMHO.

[identity profile] pet-lunatic.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 08:03 am (UTC)(link)
Here we go with the random ageism again! What does the guy's age have to do with anything, seriously? A ten year age gap is nothing once one reaches adulthood. It's about connections and attitudes, not chronological age.
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[identity profile] subarashiine.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 04:03 am (UTC)(link)
Yes to all of these statements.

Anything else?

[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 11:19 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that pretty much sums it up. What goes on between two consulting adults is okay and normal.