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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-16 07:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #1595 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1595 ⌋


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[identity profile] kanzakihitomi.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Before I even knew what asexual meant, I told my mom I didn't want kids. She was a bit confused at first, but gradually came to know what I meant. I have various reasons. I told her I'm more independent. I told her I don't want to ruin my hips. I told her that some people are more suited to having pets than raising kids, because ultimately I wouldn't want to do any of the things that came with that, like paying for school or changing diapers or even getting married because that's a whole can of worms I didn't even want to open. Eventually we came to the point where she even jokes or corrects herself in conversation when the topic of me and kids come up. I like them, but I am not in any way suited to raise them.

To be honest, I think she finds it a sign of maturity that I can admit that. There are plenty of people out there that SHOULDN'T be parents.

Out of all of those things that I declared, one day I was able to tell her that I didn't like sex either. She didn't even bat an eye. I think she expected it at that point. :)
Edited 2011-05-17 21:53 (UTC)

[identity profile] otakugal15.livejournal.com 2011-05-17 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh my god, are you me about the whole kids things? Cause those are my thoughts and feelings entirely.

I may not share the same things on sex and I do like having a relationship, but the whole kids thing? YES.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-18 08:49 am (UTC)(link)
high five, friend! I'm with you here. It seems like we are also childfree %)