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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-27 07:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #1606 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1606 ⌋


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[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2011-05-28 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
20. http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2011-5/1366895/image.aspx.jpg

(Anonymous) 2011-05-28 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
DON'T continue to do this OP, especially as you say since you can't afford a baby right now.

Having a kid is no small decision to make, and it can change a persons whole life- either for the better or the worse, (that can sometimes depends on timing, not only simply having a kid to begin with at all depending on the person in question).

Hopefully you won't find you're pregnant in the very near future, or at the very least accessible alternatives exist wherever you're from with what to do if you are and you seriously can't afford to raise a child.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-28 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
Also even if they could afford it it's a bit skeevy to make this decision without the other partner. (Though OP seems to acknowledge this).

I mean mistakes can happen and people can make the choice of keeping the possible baby- and after all it's overall their body and choice and sometimes they may have to choose between their relationship and that, but making a concious decision like this to try and get pregnant in this situation without the partner knowing seems really off.

[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2011-05-30 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I can't really do anything but agree there. I strongly believe parenthood should be a choice, preferably for both parties involved...

(Anonymous) 2011-05-28 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
Wow...just wow. I have never been more floored at the straight-up stupidity of a f!s before. You absolute fucking moron.

[identity profile] spam-27.livejournal.com 2011-05-28 03:25 am (UTC)(link)
Well that's just creepy as hell.

[identity profile] feanorian.livejournal.com 2011-05-28 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
Wow. I have never said this to another human being, even though i've thought it dozens of times.
Do. Not. Ever. Reproduce.

Your motives for wanting to get pregnant here are SO VERY SKEEVY and just disgusting. You want to bring another life into this world to provide a replacement for your husband's (the fetus' father's) childhood crush? What the holy fuck? Can you not see how sick that is? And that's not even touching your whole i-hope-i-oops-him thing. Here's a tip for you: consent for sex-and-birth-control and consent for sex-without-birth-control are two VERY different things. If i'd found out my SO did what you did, that relationship would be over so very, very fast whether or not it resulted in pregnancy.

To reiterate: you absolute fucking moron.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-28 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, purposefully neglecting to take your birth control is deffo skeevy and you should stop that and/or cop to it immediately, but there's just one thing: you'll never think it's the right time to be able to financially afford a baby. babies are expensive little things, and they turn into kids and teenagers who are even more so. if you want to have children and you feel like it's your time to do it by biological standards, go for it.

but only after talking to your partner beforehand, though.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-28 09:03 pm (UTC)(link)
While it's true that one will never feel completely financially ready to have a baby, one should have reached a basic level of financial stability before having one. Would you really advise someone who, say, has trouble buying groceries and making the rent each month that she should "go for it?" Not saying that that's the situation the OP is in, but the point I'm trying to make is that you can't just disregard financial considerations altogether.