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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-05-27 07:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #1606 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1606 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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35. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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36. [TRIGGER WARNING for depression/self-harm]















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #229.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 (trigger/warning for rape/rape in image/underage) - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2011-05-28 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
If the fic has you thinking about consent, that's a good thing. And in that instance, it looks very much like the character needs that verbal confirmation, because out of bed they wouldn't have a choice but to obey. And you're right, seeking consent can be sexy (especially if it's honestly seeking -- if the person being asked says "no" and gets listened to, I find it incredibly arousing, because I get turned on by being able to trust.)

That said, the negotiations don't always have to be made out loud to be valid. Look at the fics you're worried about and see if what's skeeving you is someone being pushed well past their comfort zone and then the writer assuming that they're going to lie there and like it. If that element isn't there -- if both parties are clearly having a good time and there's give and take -- then the verbal part isn't as important.