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fandomsecrets2011-06-02 07:52 pm
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(Anonymous) 2011-06-03 01:31 am (UTC)(link)no subject
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I'll delete it, then.
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(Anonymous) 2011-06-03 12:19 am (UTC)(link)I don't follow the comic that closely, so maybe I'm missing something, but it doesn't seem that farfetched to me?
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The big one usually discussed is Kismesis. Basically, Trolls need to hate. This isn't a tsundere thing or a repressed sexual tension sublimated into antagonism, it's literally hate. Two trolls actively dislike each other, do things to ruin the other trolls life, even cripple or attempt to kill.
And yet they also are mates. In fact, this relationship is necessary for troll reporduction.
It doesn't fully make sense. But it's not really supposed to.
Also, trolls consider the relationships we'd most closely describe as "best friend who's also your foil" and "mediator between arguing parties" as distinct platonic but romantic relationships. Having two best foil friends would be an affair (but by contrast, being a mediator while having both a romantic paramour and a hate-sex relationship would be fine, these are all separate).
Of course, cause it's fandom, people see these relationships in other things they are a fan of, which obviously OP isn't liking so much. Technically, she's right, these are alien relationships with only comparisons that aren't quite accurate in human culture and can't fully be associated to other things. Less seriously though, it can be fun to do.
Now you know more then you probably ever cared about.
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That's not to say I go around calling my best friends my "moirails" (especially since not all of them read Homestuck), but it's still a nice gesture in my mind. I think Hussie does a pretty great job of describing those relationships that aren't quite friendship, but not quite enemies, either.
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As shorthand? I think it's fine. But as in canon? I definitely don't think it's impossible for a human to have felt moraillegience or kismesisstude or even auspistice, but I do agree that if you have been in one of those situations IRL you're either deeply messed up or need better friends. After all, part of being romance means that it's ROMANCE - it's powerful and primal and drives your emotions - and while I believe IRL kismesis probably exists more than we let on, if you are getting genuinely primal desires to facilitate between a couple you know who love each other in a mutually-destructive and hurtful way in order to keep their relationship going, then there's probably something wrong with you.
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People do a lot of stuff like that with fandom, doesn't cause any real harm. Just...like I said, don't get obsessed or something.
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(Anonymous) 2011-06-03 01:34 am (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2011-06-03 08:26 am (UTC)(link)As a whole, I think moirallegiance could be a healthy thing among humans as long as the dangerous one actually respects the meddling one and their opinions. I don't know if this would actually happen in real life, though? Auspistice is perfectly healthy and honestly happens all the time. I don't think kismesis could ever be healthy, but I still want to try it someday when I'm less of an easy target emotionally and in general.
Really, what bugs me more is when fans seriously claim to be in troll relationships but defy the relationships' basic definitions. Moirallegiances that are just close friendships, kismeses that are just mildly bickery relationships, etc.
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(Anonymous) 2011-06-04 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)