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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-06-03 08:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #1613 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1613 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[the Boondocks]


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[Tales of Vesperia]


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[Emilie Autumn/Transformice]


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[Amnesia]


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[Madlax]


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[Being Human]


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[Final Fantasy/RP]


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[Knights of the Old Republic]


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[Psychoville]


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[The Flaming Lips]


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[Young Justice]


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[Hetalia]


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19. [SPOILERS for Hawaii Five-O]



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20. [SPOILERS for Bones]



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21. [SPOILERS for Bones]



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22. [SPOILERS for Surprise of Suzumiya Haruhi]



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23. [SPOILERS for Pirates of the Caribbean: On Stranger Tides]



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24. [SPOILERS for something idk they didnt say what]



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25. [SPOILERS for Pirates of the Caribbean]



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26. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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27. [SPOILERS for Portal 2]
















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: pages, secrets from Secret Submission Post #.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - repeats ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-04 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
There is so much wrong with this secret, I don't even know where to begin. The idea that women who settle down with kids can't be "badass" is just as sexist and heteronormative as what you're railing against. I'd understand if you said something like, "I'd like to see more non-heteronormative couples on TV and it makes me sad that some of my favorite characters are being forced into this mold, I feel."

Second, your problem with characters having kids is that "no one should bring a kid into the world nowadays"? Seriously? Not the idea that society makes it seem like you have to have kids and a family unit to be happy, but that no one should be having children ever? How the fucking hell is that a solution to the problem you present? That doesn't prevent heteronormativity. What about all the homosexual couples who might want children through sperm donation or surrogates? Are they not allowed kids too, or is it okay since they aren't heteronormative?

As someone who does eventually want a family with children because I want to, GTFO.

[identity profile] tameable.livejournal.com 2011-06-04 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
This is pretty much what I wanted to say, thank you for saying it better than I would have.

Though I would like to tack on that adding in "who the hell in their right mind" and "no sane adult" just makes OP even worse.

[identity profile] oflittlebrain.livejournal.com 2011-06-04 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
this is an excellent comment. OP, there are very good arguments to be made for less TV characters settling down and having kids, but yours is not one of them. :/

[identity profile] masked-creator.livejournal.com 2011-06-04 04:37 am (UTC)(link)
Well said. :T

[identity profile] goatsfoot.livejournal.com 2011-06-04 04:50 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, this. Trying to get start a lesbian family with my lesbian partner and not feeling particularly heteronormative, or particularly willing to "settle down". Perhaps I'm a baaad mother-to-be for wanting kinky encounters with strangers, or travelling the world, or doing activist work, or whatever, sure it's gonna be harder with kids, but it's not going to stop me being badass.
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[personal profile] elialshadowpine 2011-06-04 09:05 am (UTC)(link)
+1

I don't want children and would love to see more childfree people portrayed positively in the media, but the way this secret is worded... ugh, ugh, ugh.