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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-06-05 03:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #1615 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1615 ⌋


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[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 07:43 pm (UTC)(link)
19. http://i55.tinypic.com/k0shna.jpg

(Anonymous) 2011-06-05 07:54 pm (UTC)(link)
You know what, though? It's okay that you're a prude and you don't want sexy fics as long as you don't take a shit on those of us who do like them. Take comfort in media in your own way, but don't try to change the way others do it, that's my motto.

[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Basically,this.
ext_19953: (jay and lunchbox = heterOTP)

[identity profile] mutantjules.livejournal.com 2011-06-06 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
yup, this! No worries OP, there's room in fandom for both of us :D

(Anonymous) 2011-06-05 08:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Same. Occasionally I may have a fantasy of my favorite pairing engaged in vanilla sex, but I mostly prefer fandom characters pure. Same with my own original characters, even the ones who have children halfway in the story. I guess I'm just not interested in writing or thinking about sex. The purity of the characters helps with the escapism as if I was falling into my own Neverland, far from this world and into a world that I was familiar with as a small child.

It's cool that I'm not the only one like this.

[identity profile] goobbledigook.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 08:23 pm (UTC)(link)
So long as you don't expect everyone else to think that sexuality is shameful and degrading...

[identity profile] birdboy2000.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 08:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not that extreme, but I don't personally care much for smutfic either, or even shipfic. You might be a numerical minority, but you're so far from alone.

Just write some good gen; I'm sure plenty of people will appreciate it.

[identity profile] no-one-specific.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 08:40 pm (UTC)(link)
That's fine! Take the character as you will, and there's nothing wrong with not wanting to involve sex or anything sexy to your character.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-05 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I enjoy sexual fics not because they arouse me, but because they often present a deeper, more intimate look at the characters and flesh out (no pun intended) their lives.

[identity profile] bloodrivendream.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 09:54 pm (UTC)(link)
That is part of the enjoyment for me as well.
A lot of the time I just want to read fics about certain characters and I do not care if it is smut, fluff, gen, or whatever.
Part of the appeal of sexual fics is the feeling that that part of the characters isn't being edited out.

Completely off topic

(Anonymous) 2011-06-05 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
But this secret is ridiculously pretty.

[identity profile] oflittlebrain.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)
well, i dislike the idea that sexuality is somehow "impure"

but, um, yeah as long as you don't shit on others for enjoying fandom in a different way than you?

(Anonymous) 2011-06-05 09:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, you are in the minority, but fandom isn't about what the majority think, it's about what makes each of us as individuals happy. If it ruins your image of the characters to see them in relationships, that's neither bad nor good, it's just something useful to realize about yourself. Headers make it pretty easy to avoid the shippy stuff. If you don't enjoy it, you aren't missing anything by avoiding it.

As long as you don't get all judgey or feel superior because other people don't have the feelings and relationships to the characters as you do, you'll be fine.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-05 09:17 pm (UTC)(link)
It's totally cool that that type of fic isn't your thing. But it worries me that you find sexual situations insulting, degrading, and destructive.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-05 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Of fictional characters I enjoy, not in general

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(Anonymous) 2011-06-05 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
So are you capable of feeling those things for characters who aren't your favorite? Because I can kind of see where you're coming from. In my teens, my friends would all get crushes on band members of our favorite groups, and I just... couldn't. To me, the music was such a sacred part of my identity (And it's interesting the way that happens in our teen years. Music is used as such a divider and a sort of label.) that getting a crush on one of the musicians just couldn't happen for me.

And even now, looking back, I can't see them as viable crush objects. But actors? Sure! Because I don't see them, in any way, as a role model or important to my expression. So there's a distance, maybe? And they are easy to crush on.

[identity profile] bloodrivendream.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I used to only be able to fantasize about characters I made up in my mind...
Doing so about real people or other people's characters felt awkward. It still kind of does.

Which is kind of similar I suppose?

(Anonymous) 2011-06-05 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Same here. :D *high five* I wish it was easier to find good fics without any porn.

And for those who say they are concerned with OP thinking sexuality is degrading or whatever... I didn't interpret it this way. I interpreted it as it's degrading to masturbate to someone's image (mental or picture) without their knowledge, which I agree with. I'd be creeped out if I found out someone was doing that to me, and all. But uh... I don't think that applies to fictional people. But if you get attached enough to a character, sometimes you want to respect their wishes even though you know they aren't real, so I kinda know what OP means.

[identity profile] miezen.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Not a big deal so long as you don't expect fandom to change to suit your preference, and so long as you don't insult those of us who do enjoy our smutfic, doujins, etc.

[identity profile] xelestri.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I was the same way until I played L4D2, now I have all kinds of dirty thoughts about Ellis. I was like, wtf self?

Whatever, he's hot.

[identity profile] danaphilip.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't necessarily fantasize about them, beyond shipping.

Some weird characters in sex dreams though.

I mean...

like Squidward, for one. WUT I'M NOT EVEN IN THIS FANDOM

[identity profile] omorka.livejournal.com 2011-06-05 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
The idea that sex or sexual imagery is insulting, degrading, or destructive strikes me as extremely sex-negative. If it's just not your thing, that's fine, but could we do without the name-calling?

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[identity profile] robintheshrew.livejournal.com 2011-06-06 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think that prudish in the slightest. I think it just means you think uniquely to most of fandom. It makes you interesting, what's wrong with that?

(Anonymous) 2011-06-06 05:11 am (UTC)(link)
I just think it's insulting to the creators, unless the original material already makes it a point to sexualize characters / is porn / etc.

I certainly wouldn't want a bunch of creepers getting off on my mental creations, especially those I may have put some of my personality in.

(And yes, I said "creepers."
"BOO HOO WHY U NO ACCEPT PPL NO MATTER WUT REGARDLESS OF YOUR PERSONAL OPINION??"
Blah.)

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i really feel sorry for you, op

(Anonymous) 2011-06-06 12:24 pm (UTC)(link)
chances are sex makes you feel ashamed and/or uncomfortable irl, at least to some significant degree. i really hope you get over it

inb4 somebody thinks i'm trolling or tries to make me change my mind lol