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fandomsecrets2011-06-05 03:36 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2011-06-05 03:36 pm
[ SECRET POST #1615 ]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 08 pages, 185 secrets from Secret Submission Post #231.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.
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I never said I knew what they felt. But that they couldn't feel what Kurt felt in that moment because that wasn't what happened, according to the OP. They weren't sexually assaulted, they weren't bullied and intimidated by this person for being gay - as far as we know. That wasn't the situation they were in.
The fact is - the fact based on the information that the OP provided - is that someone told them they loved them. That is not sexual assault. The situations are not comparable. Period.
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Drive-by love for that phrase. I might have to borrow it someday.
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(Anonymous) 2011-06-06 01:19 pm (UTC)(link)Equally, I have the right to be offended when a comparison is made about sexual assault to something that is not sexual assault. It's offensive, period.
And OP should be called on this, because maybe OP will learn to not over dramatize a situation. Or maybe the situation really does suck, but OP will learn to explain themselves better.
We learn from experience and that may not change our feelings now, but it could change our feelings in the future. Human beings are not completely devoid of logic, even when emotional. I wouldn't scratch my knee and tell people it felt like I was just murdered.
None of this means I don't feel sorry for the OP if they are going through a rough time, it just means what they said in their secret could have been put more delicately.