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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-06-10 07:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #1620 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1620 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.
[Ano Hi Mita Hana no Namae wo Bokutachi wa Mada Shiranai]



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02.
[Hetalia]


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03.
[Magical Girl Lyrical Nanoha]


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04.
[Michael Silas/Asiel Hardison, Lady Gaga's dancers]


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05.
[Tiger & Bunny]


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06.
[Evangelion]


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07.
[Zero Punctuation]


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08.
[The Catherine Tate Show]


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09.
[Grimgrimoire]


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10.
[wonderful days, guyver, cowboy bebop, texhnolyze, togainu no chi, black lagoon, samurai champloo, aishiteruze baby, tenjo tenge]


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11.
[X-Men: First Class]


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12.
[Tales of the Abyss]


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13.
[Human Target]


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14.
[A Song of Ice and Fire]


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15.
[Masterchef Australia]


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16.
[Sucker Punch]


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17.
[Mystique]


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18.
[Workaholics]


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19.
[Mark Reads]


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20.
[Jamie Campbell Bower ]


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21.
[Hey Arnold!]












[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]












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22. [SPOILERS for Homestuck]



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23. [SPOILERS for Gintama]



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24. [SPOILERS for Kamen Rider Kabuto]



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25. [SPOILERS for Loveless]



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26. [SPOILERS for Doctor Who]



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27. [SPOILERS for Mockingjay]



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28. [SPOILERS for Kung Fu Panda 2]

















[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]


















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29. [TRIGGER WARNING for non-con]



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30. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

[Game of Thrones]


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31. [TRIGGER WARNING for eating disorders]



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32. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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33. [TRIGGER WARNING for transphobia?]



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34. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

[SPN]


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35. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape, pedophilia]



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36. [TRIGGER WARNING for eating disorders]



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37. [TRIGGER WARNING for self-injury, suicide]

[Manic Street Preachers]






Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #231.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
The people at sf_drama are the cruelest hypocrites I know. They laugh at suicidal people, then condemn rape fic? Goad a girl into cutting herself, and then shout at her because she did not use a trigger warning?

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
Don't forget their condemning a slut-shamer, then switching to defending her and trying to judge who can and can't be a "REAL" victim of rape.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Not to mention the time they bullied and berated a woman who was raped for years as child, along with completely invalidating her feelings and opinions based on that experience, all while claiming to hate rape fic and such. Rape fic is so ~horrible, but tormenting rape victims is totes fine.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
They've done the same with an underage girl that was raped in the past as well... because she writes lolicon fic.

[identity profile] stunt-muppet.livejournal.com 2011-06-11 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
Wasn't that that girl who was insisting that she should track down a "fellow" rape victim and force her to accept her help? That's still really, really unacceptable, and while I have no great love for sf_d, I can see why people wouldn't be happy about that.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 04:51 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah, it was. she also thought it was so horrible that people who might have known didn't tell her any of that victim's personal information, she just wanted to ~help.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 04:38 am (UTC)(link)
If you're talking about ravyn_skye, uh... that is really not the problem with her. Ravyn_skye is a creepy transphobic racist who enjoys purposely triggering fellow survivors and makes lots of nazi jokes.

She's also not underage though, so if you're not talking about her nevermind.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
And it's also sf_drama's job to tell us who's really a rape victim and who's not a rape victim! And how rape victims are supposed to really cope! And how if a slut-shamer bullies rape victims, SHE must be the rape victim because her rage must have been a trigger.

tw rape

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 08:01 am (UTC)(link)
Oh yeah, I remember now! Thanks to sf_d, I now know that every time I got drunk and initiated sex, I was actually being raped! I never would have figured it out on my own. Thanks, sf_d!

Re: tw rape

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 08:16 am (UTC)(link)
good fucking god are you honestly trying to say that when people talk about their experiences with having been raped while drunk they're trying to define your experience?

really?

show me one fucking post where someone said "drunk sex is always with absolutely no exceptions rape"

Re: tw rape

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 08:19 am (UTC)(link)
if this is about the post where a bunch of people jumped in to say that the girl couldn't possibly have been raped because she asked for it, even though she explicitly told her boyfriend while sober that she didn't want to have sex with him while drunk... even though she clearly felt she had been raped...

Re: tw rape

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 08:34 am (UTC)(link)
One person says "I don't feel like it"

Both people get drunk

The person who didn't want it initiates sex

Somehow it's on him to decline her, and not on her to not initiate.

Like I said, if that's your definition of rape, most of the times I've had sex I was being raped.

Re: tw rape

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 08:44 am (UTC)(link)
do you expressly tell your boyfriend "i don't want to do anything sexual with you while i'm drunk so please don't" before you get drunk



jfc i don't understand why victimblaming assholes like yourself feel the need to jump through so many loops to twist the situation into something resembling their own so they can pretend we're claiming you've been raped when you obviously don't feel you have.

i mean, unless you have a suspicion that you really have been raped and this is all just your way of trying to come to terms with it, idk. if so, my apologies. if not, whut the fuck up and quit trying to blame victims for sexual assault.

Re: tw rape

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 08:56 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah I did. And then I CHANGED MY MIND. Women can do that! Gasp!

If she was raped because she INITIATED SEX WHILE DRUNK, how was he not raped for ALSO HAVING SEX WHILE DRUNK? Why is he responsible but she isn't?

Re: tw rape

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 09:07 am (UTC)(link)
it doesn't matter if he was drunk ffs he should have remembered she didn't want to have sex. and no, she shouldn't have had to remember the same thing because THE WOMAN IS NEVER AT FAULT. GET THIS THROUGH YOUR HEAD. IT IS ALWAYS RAPE IF A MAN HAS SEX WITH A DRUNK WOMAN. ALWAYS.

Re: tw rape

[identity profile] silver-coins.livejournal.com 2011-06-11 03:10 pm (UTC)(link)
lmao, what? so men can never get raped? If the man is just as drunk as the woman and she is the agressive one than HE rapes HER? how about queer couples? If the woman is "NEVER AT FAULT"(lmfao) than one woman can never rape another if they're both drunk? XD

it batshit "feminists" like you that ruins it for everyone else. congrats on that.

nayrt

(Anonymous) - 2011-06-12 01:37 (UTC) - Expand

Re: nayrt

[identity profile] silver-coins.livejournal.com - 2011-06-12 11:12 (UTC) - Expand

Re: tw rape

[personal profile] karel - 2011-06-11 16:43 (UTC) - Expand

Re: tw rape

[identity profile] relmneiko.livejournal.com - 2011-06-12 10:45 (UTC) - Expand

Re: tw rape

(Anonymous) 2011-06-12 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
oh so basically this is just a huge projection thing for you

maybe you should fucking stop it

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 06:20 am (UTC)(link)
hi leafing

no-one goaded you into cutting yourself

we were cross because you posted pictures in a shitty attempt to manipulate people and it never once crossed your mind that it would hurt people who WEREN'T EVEN INVOLVED WITH YOUR SHITTY DRAMA

hth

[identity profile] leafing.livejournal.com 2011-06-11 06:26 am (UTC)(link)
Hey Douche Nukem, the only posts of mine here are the ones with my name on them.

hth

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 02:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Douche Nukem! I like that!
karel: (topher; in mazes lost)

[personal profile] karel 2011-06-11 04:40 pm (UTC)(link)
uhhhhh I didn't know that having a mental illness (that sometimes makes it seem like a good idea to do irrational things) was being manipulative. I don't even know the person involved, but this is a shitty thing to say. If someone is to the point of cutting themselves, get off your "SJ" horse and stop fucking with them. Just leave it alone. You're not helping anything, you're not getting your point across, you're just fapping to the sound of your own keyboard. You don't even know what's going on in this person's head, so maybe you should sit down and shut up.

SJ is in quotes because what you are doing is nothing like the real thing.

[identity profile] leafing.livejournal.com 2011-06-11 06:30 pm (UTC)(link)
That was kind of the entire point, yeah, to get people to stop teasing me for liking plants and making metaphors related to them. When I had mentioned that I was very upset and had been cutting, that was the subject of even more teasing as well as what I had interpreted as doubt, so the obvious solution at the time seemed to be to prove it. This backfired horribly.

However; when dealing with such sensitive topics, we must remember the old saying, "no1curr."

(Anonymous) 2011-06-12 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
no one was teasing you

people were getting upset with you for being a transphobic shithole

[identity profile] leafing.livejournal.com 2011-06-12 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
Because I didn't know whether or not to hyphenate a word.

oh ok

[identity profile] corvigryph.livejournal.com 2011-06-11 10:10 am (UTC)(link)
They are like the Encyclopedia Dramatica of LJ.