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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-06-10 07:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #1620 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1620 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.
[Ano Hi Mita Hana no Namae wo Bokutachi wa Mada Shiranai]



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02.
[Hetalia]


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03.
[Magical Girl Lyrical Nanoha]


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04.
[Michael Silas/Asiel Hardison, Lady Gaga's dancers]


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05.
[Tiger & Bunny]


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06.
[Evangelion]


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07.
[Zero Punctuation]


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08.
[The Catherine Tate Show]


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09.
[Grimgrimoire]


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10.
[wonderful days, guyver, cowboy bebop, texhnolyze, togainu no chi, black lagoon, samurai champloo, aishiteruze baby, tenjo tenge]


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11.
[X-Men: First Class]


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12.
[Tales of the Abyss]


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13.
[Human Target]


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14.
[A Song of Ice and Fire]


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15.
[Masterchef Australia]


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16.
[Sucker Punch]


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17.
[Mystique]


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18.
[Workaholics]


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19.
[Mark Reads]


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20.
[Jamie Campbell Bower ]


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21.
[Hey Arnold!]












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22. [SPOILERS for Homestuck]



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23. [SPOILERS for Gintama]



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24. [SPOILERS for Kamen Rider Kabuto]



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25. [SPOILERS for Loveless]



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26. [SPOILERS for Doctor Who]



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27. [SPOILERS for Mockingjay]



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28. [SPOILERS for Kung Fu Panda 2]

















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29. [TRIGGER WARNING for non-con]



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30. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

[Game of Thrones]


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31. [TRIGGER WARNING for eating disorders]



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32. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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33. [TRIGGER WARNING for transphobia?]



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34. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

[SPN]


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35. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape, pedophilia]



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36. [TRIGGER WARNING for eating disorders]



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37. [TRIGGER WARNING for self-injury, suicide]

[Manic Street Preachers]






Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #231.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-11 04:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmmm...the pedophilia one, yes, YKINMK is another way to shut down any detractors on that one. I'm also torn because while I can't be the thought police, I also don't want this stuff around for budding predators - there's plenty of proof the pedophiles start with this stuff and move on. I dislike the idea that allowing people to indulge in this kink shows a bit of complicit approval from society, whereas maybe if it were more shamed up front people would be less likely to indulge in it. It's tough...one the one hand no one is REALLY being hurt, on the other hand it's a kink to be discouraged just due to the social implications of repeatedly sexualizing children in any form.


BUT a rape kink is an entirely different ballpark OP. I'm not even a fan or in fandom, and I think rape kinks are fine - so I'm not doing the complicit acceptance of everything with no discretion, like fans tend to do. Rape fantasies are the most COMMON kink among women (even the normal non-fannish ones) in society actually, overwhelmingly so. I can tell you there are plenty of studies that show as much too - you're not weird or alone. It's almost a vanilla kink at this point, the prevalence is as such. I mean seriously, what do you think all those grocery store romance novels are? They're called 'bodice rippers' for a reason - there's usually at least dramatic sexy rape scene at the crux of the book. So don't feel too bad and indulge in that one if you like. Although I'd argue don't make ALL of your fantasies rape fantasies, because then it gets hard to get off to anything else. Nothing is more boring or sad than a one-track sex-life.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-12 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
there's plenty of proof the pedophiles start with this stuff and move on.

Nope. If anything, it CURBED DOWN the rate of child molestion/rape.

And predators attack because of power, not sex.