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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-06-15 08:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #1625 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1625 ⌋


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Notes:

Sorry it's late. Half of tinypic being down = I have to go through manually and replace the ones that aren't working. Hopefully it'll be back by tomorrow

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[identity profile] grazie.livejournal.com 2011-06-16 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe. But the fact that that half assed excuse may in fact be very valid doesn't make me look on the OP any kinder. If my friend who had done almost the exact same thing to me said the same, I don't think it would be that rage inducing. As I said, 'almost suspended is not suspended.' If that's the worst that happened, and it's been several years, if it's true, I worry more about OP than their friend. That's unhealthy.

[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2011-06-16 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
Ehm, sorry, it's not "valid" even if said BNF had genuine issues. There are plenty of people who go through terrible things & do not take it out on someone else. Of course, we're only getting part of the story (and an abbreviated version at that), but I'm guessing the damage between these two is unmendable. In which case, staying the hell away from each other is probably best.

[identity profile] danaphilip.livejournal.com 2011-06-16 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
Do you always let your friends walk over you like that?

(Anonymous) 2011-06-16 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
People need to stop being so dismissive of things that have happened to others - high school stuff or otherwise - by saying, "That was so long ago, you should just get over it." There's nothing wrong with being upset by something that happened to you, and you shouldn't be expected to just get over it because it happened when you were younger. Yes, there's a problem if it dominates your whole life, but saying the person should just get over it already after a certain amount of time legitimizes whatever wrong thing was done to them.

[identity profile] xenafox.livejournal.com 2011-06-16 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
But the fact that that half assed excuse may in fact be very valid

Um. No. That gives them no right to have been a bully to this person. Everyone deals with tough times, some more than others but that gives them/us no right to take it out on someone else.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-16 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
You're saying you wouldn't even be a little bit angry? Wow. I mean, it's clear that the OP isn't actually going to do anything about this beyond making this secret, so at least they seem slightly more human just for having the need to vent.