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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-06-15 08:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #1625 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1625 ⌋


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Notes:

Sorry it's late. Half of tinypic being down = I have to go through manually and replace the ones that aren't working. Hopefully it'll be back by tomorrow

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(Anonymous) 2011-06-16 11:08 am (UTC)(link)
Just because it doesn't seem worth it to you does not mean that is how it is for everyone. I am in college and I am still dealing with the trauma of the bullying and ostracism I went through when I was eleven-to-fifteen. It's not a conscious process, it's not a grudge; I barely remember what happened. But I cannot make friends with anyone and every now and again I get triggered by innocent things.

I wasn't even bullied that severely. My life was never in any danger. Most of the people doing it just thought it was fun.

So someone having a reasonably long-term poisonous friendship with another person? Just because you could shrug that off doesn't mean it couldn't eat away at someone else's soul.

(Anonymous) 2011-06-16 12:19 pm (UTC)(link)
This. I find it interesting that this entire thread has derailed into a SJ marathon and being so defensive of trans issues that no one seems to even wonder if they're starting to victim blame or not.

The two issues are separate, yeah, but half the comments here are still pretty darn harsh just because of a misused pronoun for some bullying jerk they knew in school. Not really an excuse, but everyone seems quick to assume that there's no way this person was too hurt by this poor confused girl's behavior.

[identity profile] twotailtinkerer.livejournal.com 2011-06-16 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey. I just wanted to step in and say you aren't alone. Your situation more or less mirrors mine.

I really wish all these people flipping out over the pronoun and ignoring how awful this person was would get some perspective.