Uh, but for a lot of people everything in fandom IS about "I think these two bodies look hot together." And that's not doing fandom wrong, either. They're having fun. That's supposed to be the whole fucking point.

The sandbox is for everybody and the toys you want to take home with you in a huff? Don't belong to you. RPF isn't going anywhere, not anytime in the near future. Letting other people just have their fun instead of trying to make them feel guilty (because it'll work on some - I won't deny that) is kind of a douche move. Really.