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fandomsecrets2011-07-30 03:04 pm
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(Anonymous) 2011-07-31 01:09 am (UTC)(link)I think people discount the amount of stress that they would be under. I mean, if I knew that my best friend was probably going to be murdered, that my family was hated for being poor, that my school would probably not exist for long and that people in my classes had DIED, I would probably bicker with anyone who stood 500 metres in my way. The fact that they don't hate each other after all that they have been through is a testament to how much they truly like or love each other, which can being either romantic or platonic.
This argument is exactly the same as the opposing argument which is that regardless of whether they can bicker and be platonic or bicker and be romantic, the fact that they still stick together and try to be strong for Harry is more a testament of their friendship and deep caring for each other then anything. I don't understand Harry/Hermione because I personally have a relationship with a boy whom I love love love but he's so platonic that it's almost like he's my brother. I prefer the idea that Harry looked outside his two friends for love and found someone that wasn't easy to strike a relationship with. My brothers would KILL me if I started a relationship with one of their friends and they must have truly adored each other if they still went ahead with it.
At least what shows me that ginny/harry works is that it's so intensely personal. They don't listen to Ron, who would rather his little sister not get with his best friend. They don't listen to adults who tell them that it's too dangerous. They just be together and that more then enough proof of their feelings then anything...
AYRT
(Anonymous) 2011-07-31 01:54 am (UTC)(link)And I never said that Hermione and Ron don't care about each other, especially as friends. The whole trio obviously care about each other deeply. What I'm saying is that I don't buy all of the "chemistry" that they have, because, to me, it's less chemistry and more the complete abuse of the "they fight which means love!" trope.
And I'm going to ignore all of this: I don't understand Harry/Hermione because I personally have a relationship with a boy whom I love love love but he's so platonic that it's almost like he's my brother. I prefer the idea that Harry looked outside his two friends for love and found someone that wasn't easy to strike a relationship with. My brothers would KILL me if I started a relationship with one of their friends and they must have truly adored each other if they still went ahead with it. because it's ridiculously subjective and there's not really anything I can say to argue with it. I can bring up personal anecdotes too, but that doesn't really add anything to the discussion.
And also, from what I remember, Ron's reaction to Harry and Ginny getting together was pretty much "*Shrug.*" It's not like they're OMG MAKING A STAND AGAINST THOSE PEOPLE THAT WOULD HATE TO SEE THEM TOGETHER! From what I remember, the reaction everyone has to Harry/Ginny pretty much amounts to, "Meh."
Re: AYRT
(Anonymous) 2011-07-31 02:18 am (UTC)(link)From what I remember, the reaction everyone has to Harry/Ginny pretty much amounts to, "Meh."
Lol! Which was pretty much my reaction to them as well.
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(Anonymous) 2011-07-31 02:56 am (UTC)(link)Ginny was his friend too. So he looked outside of his two best friends... to one of his other friends.
They don't listen to adults who tell them that it's too dangerous.
When on earth did that happen?