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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-08-05 08:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #1676 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1676 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Toriko]


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[Bubble Sisters, After School, Beast and T-ARA]


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[Yu-Gi-Oh! Duel Monsters]


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[Frezned/YouTube]


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[Orc Stain]


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[Tiger & Bunny]


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[My Fair Lady]


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(Strawberry Shortcake's Berry Bitty Adventures)


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[Glee]


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20. [SPOILERS for Harry Potter]



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21. [SPOILERS for Harry Potter]



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22. [SPOILERS for Voyager]



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23. [SPOILERS for Agents of Cracked]



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24. [SPOILERS for A Dance with Dragons/A Song of Ice and Fire]



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25. [SPOILERS for A Dance with Dragons]



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26. [SPOILERS for A Dance with Dragons]



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27. [TRIGGER WARNING for self injury]



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28. [TRIGGER WARNING for suicide]



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29. [TRIGGER WARNING for non-con and pedophilia]



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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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[identity profile] beandelphiki.livejournal.com 2011-08-07 11:26 am (UTC)(link)
Number one, fuck this fucking slippery slope fucking bullshit.

You know what this reminds me of? I've been reading some stuff about "signature" serial killers by criminal investigator Robert Keppel. And it's interesting, but he keeps saying things like:

But judging from his sexually deviant behavior in photographing women in undergarments while bound and gagged in various degrading and humiliating positions, his plan had to have been to kill them in the first place.

Can you see what's wrong here? There are plenty of people out there who'd take sexual interest in "photographing women" bound and gagged in their underwear, and thousands more who'd enjoy said photographs, and they all aren't out choking women to death like the guy being discussed.

I'm grossed out and offended by statements that imply that the porn is taking people by the hand and leading them to commit crimes. You frequently see shrinks and people who work in law enforcement claim that certain types of porn are dangerous because they are catalysts for behaviour or some such, never checking the fact that their view is biased because of the populations of people they work with. Last I checked, child molesters can molest children completely absent any kiddie porn.

If someone is "working up" to molesting a child by viewing child porn, they have already consciously or subconsciously crossed a line in their own mind, and the porn is incidental to that.


Number two...I have no way of knowing if you are also a survivor of CSA, but when threads like this inevitably devolve into child abuse stats, I tend to feel kind of nauseated and used. What, is my abuse (indirectly, since no one here is referencing me specifically, but) fodder for e-peen stroking contests? Or just fuel for people's personal fires of righteous indignation?

You know what would actually, logically, help actual children more?

SHAMING PEDOPHILIA LESS.

Not the act of abusing a child; pedophilia, the desire.

I mean, do people here think that pedophilia confers massive fucking stupidity?! Peds KNOW how much they're despised, even if they have never actually touched a child. That's something that keeps even pedophiles who agree with society's dim view of their having sex with children deeply closeted out of fear that their life would be entirely destroyed if anyone knew they even had that desire. Which is something that keeps peds from, say, forming support groups, or seeking out therapy (like CBT, maybe) to vent and help them refrain from acting on a desire for children. Which helps no one.

Exactly what do people here think it fucking accomplishes to post shit like, "Well, some of those people might really, actually want to bone kids in rl, so let's not abandon shockhorrorsquickshame just yet!"

Oh yeah, that's real fucking useful.

Some of those prompters might, indeed, be actual pedophiles. (Although I'm inclined to doubt the idea that there's a group of peds attracted to fandom fics JUST because it has kids getting abused in them. Do you know how easy it is to find kiddie smut stories? Why would they need fandom?)

So. Fucking. What.