[ SECRET POST #1680 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1680 ⌋


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Comments

[countess-k.livejournal.com]

I've been on the other side of this fence and reading this, I just wanted to say I admire your courage and consideration OP. You must truly love her to not put her in that difficult position and jeopardize the friendship. Love should come naturally to a person and while I cannot promise it would come to your partner, not dropping a bomb on them and respecting their feelings is the best way to go in this situation.

OP

[(Anonymous)]

Thanks, truly. This makes me feel a litlte better. I know its sort of hopless, so dragging it out and making her uncomfortable won't serve any purpose & she has enough shit in her life without me piling it on. I'm the friend shes supposed to be able to relax with, no t cause more drama. there's that whole saying about loving someone and letting them go and if they come back its meant to be, etc. it hurts to know I'm not enough and shes not willing to try with me, but I understand her posisiton. I can't be mad at her for it. It hurts and makes me so sad, but I respesct it.

I guess I really jsut hope that, with enough time, I'll be able to love her platonically. I really do want her happiness, even if its not with me. I jsut need to get over the fact that I'm not gonna be the one to make her happy. [& she's not gonna be the one who makes me happy.] It's just sad knowing it, & fearing that I'll never find someone truly like her again. I'm not exaggerating when I say she's the most perfect person for me I've ever met/beenfriends with/had a chance with. [I'm not 50 and all-wise, but I'm also not an expenericed lovestruck teenager.]

Re: OP

[countess-k.livejournal.com]

It is a tough situation for sure. I don't know if you'll be able to love her platonically because the way it sounds you do truly love her and think she is your soulmate. It's hard to move on from that without first putting some distance between yourselves and meeting new people, i.e. moving on from her. On the other hand you sound like a genuinely smart and kind person so I hope things turn the other way and it'd be her who changes her tune.