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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-08-16 07:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #1687 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1687 ⌋


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Notes:

This is not your forum to identify and call out specific people just to call them assholes. Call out general actions you find reprehensible, mod ability/inability, that kind of stuff, but once you get into what basically amounts to 'this person is a stupid bitch and here are some icons/an lj layout/add. info to identify them with' - no.

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(Anonymous) 2011-08-17 01:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I am going to echo the sentiments of the person below me - you should definitely ask.

Some people would be flattered, some people would be creeped out. I'm not going to say either is the 'right' response because well, it's hard to know your relationship with this other person and their comfort level just from a secret.

For me, I didn't have someone cosplay a character of mine, but I did have a friend who 'based' a character off of mine without asking at it made me really uncomfortable. I wasn't flattered at all. Not everyone digs the whole 'imitation is the sincerest form etc' thing.

On a more related note, my boyfriend once had a guy he didn't particularly like due to inter-community drama cosplay as his character and he was a wasn't exactly super-happy about it.