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fandomsecrets2011-08-19 08:21 pm
[ SECRET POST #1690 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1690 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[The Birdcage]
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03. [repeat]
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[Swan Princess]
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[Yugioh]
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[d.gray-man/katekyo hitman reborn]
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07. [ns]
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[Natsume Yuujinchou]
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[deus ex]
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[Beelzebub]
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[Leverage]
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[Jon Richardson]
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[Suburban Knights / TGWTG]
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[A Song of Ice and Fire/Game of Thrones]
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25. [posted twice]
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[MST3K -- Pumaman]
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[Switched at Birth]
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[Risen: Dark Waters]
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(Family Ties, Out of Practice, Everwood)
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[David Mitchell and Lee Mack]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
32. [SPOILERS for Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy]

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33. [SPOILERS for Harry Potter]

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34. [SPOILERS for AtLA]

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35. [SPOILERS for Portal 2]

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36. [SPOILERS for Rise of the Planet of the Apes]

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37. [SPOILERS for Fringe]

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38. [SPOILERS for Puella Magi Madoka Magica]

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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
39. [TRIGGER WARNING for child abuse]

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40. [TRIGGER WARNING for self-harm]

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41. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

[Rihanna]
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OP
(Anonymous) 2011-08-21 07:46 pm (UTC)(link)At one end, there are friends that give you emotional support, send cards or call when you're in the hospital, sit up with you all night when you're at your worst, etc. At the other end, there's people you can hang out with and have fun but the answer to "hey, how are you doing?" is going to be "GREAT! :D :D" without any details, even if life sucks. Most people fall somewhere between, but you've got to know where they are on the spectrum, and not expect more from them than what's reasonable for where they stand. And even at the most extreme Close Friend end, people have boundaries. Self-sacrifice is never an obligation.
Rewind to 14-15, and I had NO FUCKING CLUE about any of that. Abusive household was an isolating household. I just thought, Friends Are Friends, right? I think if I'd known the Hated Shinji was like me, and realized the reasons why, I might've been able to figure out some of this without as much trial and error. Better all around for everyone involved.