[ SECRET POST #1691 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1691 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 13 pages, 314 secrets from Secret Submission Post #242.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 3 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom.livejournal.com]

27. http://i54.tinypic.com/255hyy8.png

[(Anonymous)]

I used to be like this, then I stopped giving a fuck!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wS5xOZ7Rq8

Seriously, Anon, mind excercise- think about all the want you've ever read. Do you even think about them for more than 2 seconds after you've logged out of the web? You seriously do? I don't. So I assume others don't, too, and if they do- well, their mind isn't very rich, is it?

[(Anonymous)]

All I can tell you is you're not alone :| I'm perfectly okay irl, but online, I can't do shit. Not even create a facebook account, which apparently means I don't exist. Ehh...

Which is why all I ever do is anon. That, I can manage.

[intoalkaseltzer.livejournal.com]

well, at least your future employers won't be able to dig up any dirt on you. seriously, being invisible online can be an advantage.

[zoey-says.livejournal.com]

I stay off the FB grid too and give my real name to a very select few services. I don't see the point why it's necessary to share my life with the internet.

This account has only one purpose. To comment in LJ communities. :/

[(Anonymous)]

I could have written this secret a while ago. The only way I got over it was by telling myself, "Who cares what people think about on the internet, chances are I will never ever meet them face to face, nor will their opinions about me will effect my real life." The only exceptions are places like Facebook and Google plus.

[intoalkaseltzer.livejournal.com]

just had to google the usernotes thing. seriously, though, if you ever need to talk about it -- feel free to message me, or anon comment on my journal, whatever :)

[rabidsamfan.livejournal.com]

I was going to google usernotes, but I decided not to. I mean, I suppose they might be useful for keeping track of which people on my lj have... hm.. hell, what on earth would I bother keeping track of? LJ already does the birthday thing for me. *scratches nose*

Honestly, OP, the people who would be tracking unhappy things about the folks on their flists are the people you'd probably not be befriending anyway. Come on in, the water's pretty good!

[cold-river-blue.livejournal.com]

Yeah, this. I can't imagine wanting to keep notes on people purely to hold shit against them in the future, and I can't imagine wanting to be friends with anyone who did that. It's like going back to junior high, and anyone who really wants to do that is a probably a very sad, douchebaggish individual.

[(Anonymous)]

I only use usernotes to say where I picked up new friends I don't talk to that often. I have the memory of a goldfish. Most of the time I forget that usernotes exist.

And to be honest, most of the time you mean crap to these people. You're invisible. You have to do some pretty stupid shit to stand out enough to be hated. So don't do stupid shit and don't worry because you have a cloak of invisibility. Or something like that.

[caffeine-buzz.livejournal.com]

I sort of know how you feel, anon. My problem tends to be with posting and answering comments...like, someone will post something and I'll want to reply but I get nervous so I think "Okay, you know what, I'll comment tomorrow" and then it's two days later and I'm like "If I don't comment, they'll think I'm ignoring them, but if I do comment then they might be like 'Why are you commenting on this two-day-old post, weirdo" and I basically end up hopelessly trapped in the sphere of flustered inaction.

[mskye.livejournal.com]

All you can really do is try not to be a dick. I mean, everyone acts like an asshole sometimes, but you know.

The problem is that, yes, there are people out there who will have no problem being a dick to you, even if you don't deserve it. And there are obsessive weirdos out there who hold crazy grudges and hound people for them. What you need to realize is that nobody takes these bullies seriously! They just come across as pathetic, really. If you encounter one, just hold your head up high and don't give them the satisfaction of acknowledgement.

Think of it this way. We are all nerds here. You'll find more people who will be able to relate to you then you'll find people who want to bully you (if you attract any bullies at all!). Just don't take yourself too seriously and you'll be fiiiiine.

[stella-down.livejournal.com]

this is meeeeeee. I overthink everything I do online to an almost pathological level, and yet IRL I'm pretty extroverted and nonchalant.

usernotes don't bother me, if only because I'm positive no one cares about anything I say enough to make one for me.

[thegutterati.livejournal.com]

I have the same problem; I'm extremely social irl but online I tend to lurk (but I have a couple of fandom friends whom I love dearly).

I made some friends rp-ing on tegaki a few years ago, too.

[(Anonymous)]

Honestly, I have more social anxiety tendencies online in fandom than I do anywhere else. It might be because there are seemingly more people in fandom that are quick to judge people and go over the top over the smallest things. Not saying this is what it is, but how it seems sometimes.

For me, I end up finding online fandom friends away from fandom. Like meeting people who talk about more broad and general topics and then find out we have common fandom interests. I really don't talk to many people in fandom about fandom, unless it's just a one off conversation about a specific episode.

[(Anonymous)]

I feel you OP - I'm the same way most of the time - and particularly when comes to fandom comms. [Seriously, the only places I really make fandom friends are rp partners, and places like F!S. It's kinda sad.]

[(Anonymous)]

Lol, this is basically me. IRL I'm usually pretty okay, maybe a little awkward but not like, to the point of being socially crippled or anything. Online, though, I can't work up the nerve to talk to anyone, and if I do, I do it as anonymously as possible. I usually don't even make accounts places if i can still use the website without having to. I'm pretty much just terrified that I'm going to make a fool of myself and will forever be known as "that one dumbass". XD

[rapunzelita.livejournal.com]

...What are usernotes? *blinks*