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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-08-20 04:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #1691 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1691 ⌋


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[identity profile] meran-flash.livejournal.com 2011-08-20 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)
you have to deal with the pain in the butt process of getting it legally changed. It's not something you just walk into to without thinking, there's too much paperwork to deal with to do that mindlessly.

Actually, in America, the process of changing your last name is enormously more easy for women than it is for men. We call that an institutionalized incentive.

Yes, there are no doubt others out there who do it out of a sense of feeling that society will demand of it them but that is their own choice.

lol @ "I choose my choice."

[identity profile] nohara-megami.livejournal.com 2011-08-20 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I know you have to petition the court for a name change if you aren't getting married/divorced, at least in my state, but I wouldn't call that institutionalized incentive. You have the same amount of steps either way, no one way is easier.

If you want to follow the lemmings off the cliff, you are still technically making the conscious decision to do so! Free will, gotta love humanity.

(Anonymous) 2011-08-20 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Wait, what? You know you are not refuting her point, right?

[identity profile] ncc-gqmf.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
Nope -- as someone who's looked into this quite a bit, it really is far easier for a married woman to change her last name than it is for anyone else to change their name for any other reason.

[identity profile] lady-lilith.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
It's free for a married woman to change her name. It cost me hundreds to drop my birth last name because I wasn't getting married. Oh it's much easier for a married woman to do it.

(Anonymous) 2011-08-21 03:13 pm (UTC)(link)
God, you really are an obnoxious piece of shit, aren't you?

(Anonymous) 2011-08-21 03:14 pm (UTC)(link)
lol are facts obnoxious to you?

(Anonymous) 2011-08-21 05:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Saying "it is simpler for a woman to change her last name than it is for a man" is a fact.

Saying "that's called institutionalized incentive" is tinfoil-hat feminism. Everything's a huge fucking conspiracy meant to keep wimmens in the kitchen. Whatevs.