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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-08-20 04:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #1691 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1691 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2011-08-20 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
i don't mean to sound like a creep, but how old are you? just trying to justify my 19 years of virginity here.

(Anonymous) 2011-08-20 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude, I just lost my virginity and I'm 21. :)

(Anonymous) 2011-08-20 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
No shame in being a virgin. When you're ready, you're ready.

[identity profile] etherealtsuki.livejournal.com 2011-08-20 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Pfft, I am a 27 year old virgin. Losing it never a priority with me although I was offered a few times. I haven't found the one I would give it to and I don't real any less mature or "adult" being one (and quite frankly, some of my friends who are sexually active aren't that mature).

19 is still pretty young. Don't worry about it. Give it when you really want to.

[identity profile] lisiche.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
Wooo! Another one. 28 year old virgin here.

...sorry, I get a bit relieved when I find out I'm not the only one in their late twenties who hasn't found someone they wouldn't mind sleeping with. Despite offers. ...from swingers...
Edited 2011-08-21 03:24 (UTC)

[identity profile] xanykaos.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 08:35 am (UTC)(link)
26 right here. Same reasons, really. It's just...not a priority. That's about the best way you can put it.

I mean, sometimes looking at other folk, you feel like it's something you should've done by now, but if there's opportunity and the moment just plain doesn't feel right, there's no reason to go for it just for the sake of unlocking an achievement.

19 is plenty young. Take your time.
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[personal profile] tallulahgs 2011-08-22 07:43 pm (UTC)(link)
26 year old virgin here *liking this thread*
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[identity profile] subarashiine.livejournal.com 2011-08-20 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
dude no, don't even worry about it. I happened to have has sex at a fairly young age, but I know plenty of people who didn't lose their virginity until later. no pressure at all!

[identity profile] tawabids.livejournal.com 2011-08-20 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't worry, some of the coolest friend I have are in their twenties and are still virgins. When you're ready, go for it, but don't ever feel guilty about staying happy where you are.
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[identity profile] murderershair.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
as a fellow 19 year old virgin, dude, there's nothing to justify.

[identity profile] tari-silmarwen.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
22, still a virgin. It's nothing to be worried about anon. Don't let anyone make you feel weird for not doing the nasty at your age.

(Anonymous) 2011-08-21 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Lost my virginity at 25 to the man I ended up marrying. Being a nineteen-year-old virgin is nothing to be ashamed of :)

[identity profile] tw-31988.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
....i think that's great if that's what you wanted but u see... idk if i could've done that. i would've wanted to know more. date more. see more people...idk.

(Anonymous) 2011-08-21 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
NA

Well, if your first time is Mr. or Mrs. "Right" then I don't see why anyone should go for even more people.


Also there is always the option of divorce *g*
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[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I really regret not having sex with more people before I got married TBH

Not that my spouse is terrible or anything, just wish I had "sowed my wild oats" more or something I guess IDK. Variety is the spice of life.

[identity profile] flowrs4ophelia.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
As of tomorrow I'll be 25 and still a virgin. Which I've honestly been kind of dreading because obviously the older you get the more it sucks having no experience (for me not just with sex but serious relationships in general), but I still know it's seriously nothing to feel lame about or ashamed of admitting. Despite the kind of assumptions some might make, there are a lot of reasons people might end up at your age or past it without having sex yet that have nothing to do with being a prude or unattractive or a loser.

And for some reason it kind of makes me feel better to think about all the people my age I know who aren't virgins and how they aren't necessarily getting laid way more than me anyway, lol. Most of them haven't been with more than a couple people their whole lives, so it's obviously just finding the right person that I'm missing out on.
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(Anonymous) 2011-08-21 08:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday! (and BTW: another 28-year-old virgin here).

[identity profile] megalomaniageek.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
I was 19 when I had my first time. It seemed really late at the time but in retrospect it wasn't. I'd only been past the legal age of consent for a year and I just wasn't ready before that.

(Anonymous) 2011-08-21 02:47 am (UTC)(link)
I'm 20, and though I identify as a lesbian and have had sex with a woman before I gave my... gold star... to a male friend. After it happened, I tried to go back to reading the PWP I was reading, but it didn't seem right anymore. I guess everything has a place.

[identity profile] haleysings.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 07:48 am (UTC)(link)
I'm 23 and a virgin, and it's seriously not a big deal, anon. If people give you crap for it, their priorities are probably skewed.

(Anonymous) 2011-08-21 09:05 am (UTC)(link)
I lost my virginity at 18. I was young and feeling like an oddball because everyone considered me to be a late bloomer. Looking back though, it would have been nice to have ignored them and waited until I was a little older.

(Anonymous) 2011-08-21 07:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Joining the don't worry about it bandwagon. I was 23 and it just so happened because I found a guy that I really liked. Otherwise, I'd still be holding it out!

I used to be terrified that I would die a virgin or people would be weirded out by it, but if the person you want to sleep with isn't a jerk, then they won't care.

[identity profile] otakugal15.livejournal.com 2011-08-22 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
I was 20, not yet 21.