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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-08-20 04:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #1691 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1691 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 13 pages, 314 secrets from Secret Submission Post #242.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 3 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] pelespen.livejournal.com 2011-08-20 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Ok, look. Sex is different for everyone, period. And it's usually different each time. Some people had horribly painful, bloody experiences their first time around. For some people it was just okay, and some of us were lucky enough that it was actually pretty damned good. The point is, you can't base smut scenes off of your own rl experiences, and you can't base rl experiences off of smut you've read, because there are an infinite number of variables.

Calm down, and go enjoy your smut. Or don't. But it's really not something to worry over.

(Anonymous) 2011-08-21 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
This. My first time was GREAT tbh. no one believes me it seems but its true. No pain, no blood, no awkwardness and i came. I was 17 so I had the benefit of age and still the benefits of being young, drunk, high sex drive and reckless -- also i had an amazing boyfriend i was in love with and who loved me back which imo (and i'm sure ppl will argue) makes a difference for a first time. It differs with everyone. I've only known one other friend who had as great a first time as me, and she was 16. Everyone else has been "s'alright" to "omg it HURTS!" to "oh god he's such an asshole!!" so just cuz it was awkward for you OP doesn't mean it is for everyone. so tl;dr It's not unrealistic for it to be good, just less common. maybe some of those fics u read ARE based on their RL experience just as you like ones based on yours. everyone is different. no two people are the same. not on fire.

also it gets better. way better. everyone i know who had mediocre to bad first times agrees.

I mean really just enjoy smut for what it is. If you're not speaking of smut than I can see where you're coming from i suppose. but smut is smut.