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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-08-20 04:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #1691 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1691 ⌋


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 13 pages, 314 secrets from Secret Submission Post #242.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 3 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] mentalguru.livejournal.com 2011-08-21 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Family isn't always down to genetics OP. And I'm sure there's nothing wrong with you. But it would help to talk to someone IRL- someone else talked about a helpline- or simply anyone else. Even when some feelings don't make sense or even seem illogical, they can still gnaw a bit if you hide them too much and don't get a release. Sometimes just talking helps.

I don't know the full story of your birth parents but it's likely the simple matter was they couldn't look after a child for whatever reason- which would have little to do with you and everything to do with them and their own abilities (or perhaps simply circumstances/bad luck outside their own control). Your adoptive parents -chose- you in the end. They definitly want you it seems.

I was raised by my birth parents, though I remember both my younger sister and I (a year between us) wondered if we were adopted like I think almost every kid has at one point. (We never tried to pull the idea/prank on the other- because we looked so much alike it was obvious in our tiny heads if one of us was adopted, we obviously both were). But overall I kind of liked the idea of my parents actually choosing us instead of the traditional biological way of having us. (It wasn't really because I wanted some awesome birth parents to wisk us away or anything which I think some kids want- like with being secretly princesses or inheriting cyborg koala armies but because I kind of liked the idea of them actually going out and choosing us and liking us so much they got both of us out of perhaps who knows how many other kids they could choose, even though there were times myself when I wondered if I was worthy of love at all. But I am and you are too).