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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-09-03 03:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #1705 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1705 ⌋


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[identity profile] soymade.livejournal.com 2011-09-04 06:00 am (UTC)(link)
There is no "should" in sex. I always assumed what worked for others would work for me, because that's how most of life is -- but, not sex. Sex is where everyone is different. I lost my v-card mostly just to say I had, and now I look back and, what good did it do me? None.

If everyone thought about rock-climbing the way we think about sex, it would be all "oh of course I enjoy rock-climbing, all day if I can!" and "I am *so* glad I finally went rock-climbing, omg how embarrassing." And people would be anxious about not having gone rock-climbing yet, and they would try to feel different and mature once they had.

...Uh. Anyway. My point is, it's just a thing people do. It's not even 1% of your identity -- that's how not-big of a deal it is.