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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-09-12 07:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #1714 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1714 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2011-09-13 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
We were busy being repulsed by your bitter personality.

In my case, specifically courting a nerdy/attractive girl who WASN'T YOU.

We are very happy together.

(Anonymous) 2011-09-13 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Pfffft. Yeah god forbid the OP is upset that guys won't give her a second glance, despite other women of similar looks getting interest and dates. How repulsive of her to be confused by that!

Fucking jackass.


(Anonymous) 2011-09-13 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
Or, logically, if others of the same level of attractiveness and neediness are getting it around her, then some unsubscribed flaw must be affecting her desirability. Since we know she's a nerd, and not unattractive... best bet is her personality. The fact she's all upset somebody else is getting attention doesn't help dispell that theory.

(Anonymous) 2011-09-13 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
Seriously. I don't understand why people are so unwilling to admit their personality might be the problem, not their looks.

(Anonymous) 2011-09-13 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
probably because even the most assholish of assholes still have relationships and get married. it isn't something exclusive to nice people.

and in a society that values looks above personality, it can be confusing to see people of, how do you say this politely, 'lesser' looks getting into relationships when others act like a repellent to anybody of the opposite gender.

i know from experience. i like to think i'm a fairly nice person, but many guys look at me as nothing more than a friend because i'm not what you would call 'pretty'. i can see it in their eyes as soon as they meet me. there's no sexual/romantic interest there. they take one look and think 'well, she ain't hot. tick her off the interest list'.

(Anonymous) 2011-09-13 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
You mind read? Amazing!

No. It's probably your personality.

Not trying to be mean but you honestly can not know for certain what anyone is thinking or how they view you. No matter how you think you can judge by the look in their eyes.

(Anonymous) 2011-09-13 06:50 am (UTC)(link)
ACTUALLY...there's a lot of material on how eyes can give you away, here's a quick link but if you google 'attraction eyes dilate' you'll get swarms of it.

http://www.suite101.com/content/how-to-spot-lies-and-tell-if-someo-a24370

It's not for certain, no. But your pupils DO dilate when you see something you're into. It's fact.

same anon

(Anonymous) 2011-09-13 03:49 pm (UTC)(link)
really? not to sound like an asshole, but reading people's body language isn't exactly a hard thing to do. and when it shows in things like losing their smile, eyes darting away to other women, eyes losing focus when i introduce myself, face going slack, etc... then yeah i'm going to take a hint and accept that they aren't all that interested in me.

you might not understand what that feels like. but as a girl who's looks aren't all that, it's something many of us go through all the time. it's very/i> easy to tell when a person isn't interested in you. i don't need to be a mind reader to tell that.
and it sucks when you know it's all due to your looks and not your personality.