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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-09-14 07:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #1716 ]

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Re: different anon

[identity profile] loracarol.livejournal.com 2011-09-15 03:40 am (UTC)(link)
I agree that the culture needs to shift. I agree that institutionalized sult-shaming needs to go perish in a conflageration, and I agree that the misogyny that goes along with it should put on a pair of cement shoes and go visit the Titanic.

I do not believe that demisexuality is as much of a preference as other things that have been mentioned though. Maybe it should be called demiromantic instead of demisexual, or it shoud have a different label. I. Don't. Know.

I do know this, I will disagree with you that it is slut-shaming, just as hard and often as I will agree with you that slut-shaming is a bad thing.

Also? When I googled "humans monogamy", most of the articles I found are saying that monogomy is a social trait, not a trait 'hardwired' into our brains. If this is true, then "demi" being the default is wuite possibly not true.

Re: different anon

(Anonymous) 2011-09-15 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)
nayrt

I really hope you aren't implying that monogamy is required for emotionally-connected sex. Because it's not, and the cultural meme that having multiple sexual partners means that you aren't emotionally and romantically invested in those sexual relationships is really harmful to those of us who have healthy, loving sexual relationships with more than one person.

Re: different anon

[identity profile] loracarol.livejournal.com 2011-09-15 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
If that is the way it came across, I apologize- that was not my intention. <3