[ SECRET POST #1716 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1716 ⌋


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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Isn't that what you're doing, though? Claiming that there is only one way (the so-called "normative" demisexuality) that people have sex?

Not at all. ...And I'm a little surprised that you misread it that way. I'm saying that this is how most people are already having sex, and that this is the way people are being told to have sex. At no time did I ever say that this is the only way people should have sex, or that this is the only people can have sex.

Given the prevalence of the pron industry, I highly doubt that everyone has the ~need to be connected with somoene to enjoy sexual activities, whether it's alone or with (a) partner(s).

I didn't say "everyone". I said most people. According to AVEN, it's not uncommon for asexuals and demisexuals to become aroused while looking at porn, too. Also, if you were to ever talk to a professional in the sex industry, you'd most likely be told that the majority of johns ask for a certain aesthetic (a curvaceous redhead, say, or a tall dark-haired woman, or a certain game ("pretend to be my boss at work"), or even ask for the same prostitute over and over. They aren't just looking for a wet hole - they want to feel a connection, even if it's a false one.

[loracarol.livejournal.com]

That's the way it seemed, that you were trying to say what the normative sexual activity was.

If it's a certain aesthetic, or a certain game... Is that really the same as looking for a "connection"? Or is that just the aesthetic thing they need? Though I will grant your point in asking for the same prostitute.

I really don't think that this is going to get either of us anywhere. If you still wish to keep discussing it, that's cool, but I'm not sure it's really going to get either of us anywhere. :/