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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-09-19 08:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #1721 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1721 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2011-09-20 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
Psychic!anon is psychic! I was thinking this just yesterday, and I agree with you completely. It was so irresponsible that I don't even have words. It wasn't so much that they were in the middle of a war, it was that they were both soldiers in that war, with a duty to fight, but when you become a parent, that is your priority - or should be. And yet it couldn't be, because there was nothing more important than stopping Voldemort.

And I don't accept this 'it was an accident' excuse. Being pregnant does not mean staying pregnant. It was the worst possible time to have a child.

[identity profile] microminiscrew.livejournal.com 2011-09-20 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
lol irresponsible. It's well and good for you to talk about responsibility but for one, LupinTonks when not doing Order stuff were never shown to be the most stable and two of all the times they might not be responsible when sleeping together it will probably be when sudden death due to being soldiers is real possibility. You think everyone stays celibate while out in real world wars? You're acting like no one ever has kids at a bad time.

Your last statement doesn't even make sense. Being pregnant, whether keeping it or not, is the accident. Who knows how abortion works there, if it does, etc. (although I seem to remember at that point they were partially like ok yeah it would be nice to have some of our dna in the world just in case (I might be making that up). Selfish? maybe but I can understand the sentiment). Take a good look at Tonks and Lupin's characters and see if you can see them going 'hmm yes let's have a child right now!'

Also as I said elsewhere, you realise Harry and pretty much everyone he knows was also conceived during war, right?

(Anonymous) 2011-09-20 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
I don't really disagree with anything you just said. But I don't think it invalidates my original point. Of course people make bad decisions, we're human, it's par for the course, nobody's perfect. But just because it happened, both to Lupin and Tonks and to a great many people in the First War, does not somehow mean that it stops being a bad decision. It was.

(and the reason that nearly everybody Harry knows was conceived during the war is that most of the people he knows are in his year at school, and he was conceived during the war. They're the same age. False logic is false)

[identity profile] microminiscrew.livejournal.com 2011-09-20 03:22 am (UTC)(link)
Well, that's not what your original point was saying. What you said earlier and the op were saying was quite different from 'bad decision they should have remembered protection' or whatever- you guys were saying that it's almost not understandable and you even said you don't think it's an accident and acting like it was a weakness in the book.

I also don't see what's wrong with what I said? Um I know that it's because they are all the same age, thanks? I was just pointing it out wondering why so angry about Tonks and Lupin and acting like it was so out there that this happened while accepting that that's what happened with everyone else. But it appears you have a problem with that too so never mind.

Actually, that's my question for you: why does it make you so upset?