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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-09-25 03:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #1727 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1727 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 09 pages, 203 secrets from Secret Submission Post #247.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - hit/ship/spiration ], [ 0 - omgiknowthem ], [ 0 - take it to comments ], [ 0 - repeats ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] twyla-hime.livejournal.com 2011-09-25 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
A kink is not something you can "agree" or "disagree" with. It's not some opinion or statement. You either like it or you don't.

The YKINMKATO motto doesn't mean you're not allowed to be disgusted by something. But in the spirit of reading smutty fic and getting off, it's there to create a safe, peaceful atmosphere where everyone can get what they want; without judgment.

It's just important to remember that something you like may be a first-class squick to another person. If you're unsure about a kink or suspect it may gross you out, just don't Google it.

[identity profile] kamikazemusume.livejournal.com 2011-09-26 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
I agree with this entire comment, especially the part about the YKINMKATO motto being there to create an atmosphere where people can indulge in their kinks without facing judgment over them, rather than meaning that one isn't allowed to feel disgusted by certain kinks.

It kind of comes down to a saying I've heard almost all my life: "Treat others as you would wish to be treated". If you don't want to be lectured about the kinks you have that others find disgusting, then don't lecture others about the kinks they have that you find disgusting. Sometimes it can be a little more complicated than that, but it's a good guideline to keep in mind nevertheless.